@ehBeth,
You are listed as the policy owner? Really?
In that case, you owe your sister some premium $$
ehBeth: Listen, my sister elected to continue the policy of her own free will. I asked her years ago to allow me to begin paying the premiums, remember, I stated this earlier, she REFUSED. Furthermore, given the clandestine nature of her intent, I don't feel I owe her ANYTHING.