@Diest TKO,
Oh TK-- I have attended my share. Some quite posh ones too. And some not so posh.
The flushed and intense young ladies, in full flow, saving us all from our incompetence with really, really obvious advice gleaned from the news media, which is grinding axes they could not possibly understand, having led such cosseted and sheltered lives, is a really amusing prospect.
It's actually dog eat dog in the commercial world and were it not the young ladies would not be so cosseted as they are. Unconsciously they demand it and know how to get it as well.
Do you think every automobile should be preceded by a man with a red flag to ensure its safe passage? Bearing in mind the millions of dead and multi millions of the maimed one might think it a sensible policy. A ship of coal stuck on a reef with nobody scratched is hardly a momentous matter and especially when the reef is adapting itself according to evolutionary principles to the poisons from the run off from the lands of cheap food production on which the dinner party is dependent in the first place.
Possibly you lack a sense of humour TK?