Letty, I'm immediately less wary if it's a friendly thing. Says she who is still wary about facebook - not re stalkers, exactly, more worried that I can set the security right (people who hate the front yard I designed twenty years ago ... as I might too by now) - but still may join.
Well, Robert wouldn't set up a stalker situation, we know that.
Still, the whole friending thing is like a rubber eraser to me. Even life long friends have grating points, and one can agree with people one is generally antagonistic to. There is an ick factor there for me, in the categorizing - while I appreciate being able to shut people out, especially the troll like. I suppose I am still being at the pre-newbie stage. This move by a2k may help me get used to it.