@JLNobody,
Quote:Dasein, where is this "you' who has a body?
That is the real question, isn't it.
A short story, if I may. In 1969 I was drafted into the Army and did my basic training in Ft. Ord, California. There was a story floating around about a guy who would pick up a piece of paper, look at it, mumble “No that's not it”, tear it in half, and throw it back down on the ground. Everybody knew about this guy and he was the butt of many jokes. One day his CO (Commanding Officer) called him into his office. It seems that they were going to discharge the guy from the Army on a Section 8 (mentally unstable). When the guy received his discharge papers, he looked at them and mumbled “Yep, that's it”.
I have answered your question
“Dasein, where is this "you' who has a body?” many times and in many ways, so, apparently my answer is not the 'answer' you need. Remember, answers close down thinking/Be-ing.
Maybe the only answer for you is to walk over the entire base, pick up every piece of paper until you can say “Yep, that's it”.
Quote:Aren't you confusing our grammar with the structure of reality?
Our grammar
IS the structure of reality/world. "I" and "my" are indicators of here or over yonder, nothing else. They don't imply objects called 'ego' or 'positionality'.
However, people live their lives as if who they are is an object (thing) called 'ego' and they vigorously defend their position throughout a lifetime. These people will never 'know' who they are.
Be-ing your 'self' and using grammar is different that 'Be-ing the grammar we use'.
JLNobody; There will come a time in your life when you will no longer look for answers. The key to life is uncovering the questions that don't have any answers. Once you ask all of the questions that have answers you will no longer be questioning, you'll be questing/Be-ing.