You have parents out there who actually knows how guys are suppose to function in the world.
Then you have parents that sabotage and put stupid ideas into your skull.
It is like dress codes, and how people reacts to these codes. lingo, innuendo.
It becomes your fault when you are
"given permission" to do things.
When you spend your income living in a hole in the wall just to have privacy that is not your fault. That is because somebody from home is thinking selfish stupidity, may it be guardian 1 or guardian 2.
The question is do you have control or are you going to speed on every highway before somebody pulls you over or you get a court-summons in the mail demanding to turn over your plates after the camera caught you all of those times.
I knew a guy in college. He drives. He tried to out run a police officer, he admits to love speeding. He had a courts summons, and did not come back to class.
Was it destiny for him to attempt to out run the officer or was it faith that he would be caught and have to face the results of thinking everybody was his friend in the world.
You would love the guy, nice head of hair, big smile. Was not in the class for the rest of the term.