That's alright, ironically you're half right. This friend of mine had initially wanted to get these two phrases tattooed, but he took his own life before he got around to doing it. So I felt it would be nice to have it engraved on his tombstone.
Sadly, I guess even though he had the right idea, he couldn't fight his own demons. Hopefully it will inspire someone else enough not to go down that path. He will be sorely missed. He was only 29.