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FROM A VICTIM's PERSPECTIVE: IS IT BETTER TO BE HELPLESS?

 
 
Reply Fri 25 Sep, 2009 11:44 am

FROM A VICTIM's PERSPECTIVE: IS IT BETTER TO BE HELPLESS?

I believe that there is a school of thought
that in the event that one is beset by predatory violence,
it is better to be unarmed and helpless.

WHATAYATHINK of that ?
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rosborne979
 
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Reply Fri 25 Sep, 2009 12:13 pm
@OmSigDAVID,
I believe it's probably better to be unarmed and helpless rather than being armed with a weapon which you cannot use effectively and which may be turned on you and increase the lethality of the situation.

But it's all very complicated and depends largely on what the predator has in mind for you. If he's planning killing you no matter what, then even a toothpick to stick in his eye is better than nothing. But if he's inclined to harass you and let you go rather than killing you, then you might be better off not to threaten him with a knife or gun which could be turned against you if you fail to use it properly or quickly enough.

As I think I noted on one of your other threads, the value of having a gun for self defense is greatly affected by a person's ability (and willingness) to use the gun and more importantly, to keep it safe when not in use.
farmerman
 
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Reply Fri 25 Sep, 2009 12:35 pm
@rosborne979,
Too much of unknown outcomes there ros. Being untrained in handling a weapon is certainly a reason to not carry one, but if I were trained and could handle a gun, Id like to be able to walk in relative safety.
The argument of gun laws doesnt boil down to this ridiculous topic that DAve is using. Gun control is a matter of uncontrolled ownership and brandishing of weapons. Its the ability to buy unchecked and unlimited amount of weapons pwer unit time. Its a lack of laws that dont control knowing who owns a gun, or lack of laws preventing felons to get a gun .
I choose to be protected by a gun simply because the rest of the gun laws have been castrated by the NRA and guys like Dave.

I disagree vehemently with Daves "uncontrolled ownership" of guns based upon some interpretation of the second amendment that isnt even in the second amendment.

"Shall not be infringed..." has been interpreted to mean "unlimited lack of control"
OmSigDAVID
 
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Reply Fri 25 Sep, 2009 03:02 pm
@rosborne979,
rosborne979 wrote:

Quote:

I believe it's probably better to be unarmed and helpless rather
than being armed with a weapon which you cannot use effectively
and which may be turned on you and increase the lethality of the situation.
Practice, practice, practice


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But it's all very complicated
Revolvers are less complex than automatics.




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and depends largely on what the predator has in mind for you
Yeah; its a good thing that thay always tell u first.
Who 'd distrust their honesty ?





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If he's planning killing you no matter what,
then even a toothpick to stick in his eye is better than nothing.
SO STIPULATED, but a .44 special loaded with hollowpointed slugs
is even better than a toothpick.





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But if he's inclined to harass you and let you go rather than killing you
Yeah, u coud ask him. . . .



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then you might be better off not to threaten him with a knife or gun
which could be turned against you if you fail to use it properly or quickly enough.
It can be very important to be FAST.




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As I think I noted on one of your other threads,
the value of having a gun for self defense is greatly affected
by a person's ability (and willingness) to use the gun

He who is unwilling to shoot the perpetrator of predatory violence upon him probably shoud not carry a gun;
(altho the mere display of a defensive gun, without more, has been enuf to scare some of them away).

I believe that there are some people who are simply unwilling
to harm anyone regardless of any reason, including self defense;
people who say that thay prefer to be killed than to kill.
That is not my point of vu.



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and more importantly, to keep it safe when not in use.
I must disagree concerning its being more important.
I am reminded of the misadventures of the Carpenter family
of Merced, California who were so injudicious as to lock up all of
the family 's guns before the parents left home. Thay neglected,
fatally neglected, to leave the keys with their children, who were good shots.

During their absence, a naked homicidal maniac, armed with a pitchfork
cut their fone line and entered their home, proceeding to stab to death
some of the children, who were in full compliance with all gun control laws: 100% helpless.

Noteably, the naked homicidal maniac was sufficiently politically correct
to murder them with a pitchfork, rather than a gun. Fortunately,
for lack of the keys, the other children were frustrated & defeated
in their efforts to use the family guns defensively
while their kin were being slaughtered, so that Mr. Bruce,
the aforesaid naked homicidal maniac, was not harmed.

Police arrived after being summoned from a neighbor 's house.
For SOME REASON [??] their guns were not locked up.
Mr. Bruce charged them with his pitchfork and thay shot him to death,
as the Carpenter children were not able to do because their guns were locked up when not in use.
Accordingly, the police live and the children die (some of them).
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OmSigDAVID
 
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Reply Fri 25 Sep, 2009 03:05 pm
@farmerman,
farmerman wrote:

Too much of unknown outcomes there ros. Being untrained in handling a weapon is certainly a reason to not carry one, but if I were trained and could handle a gun, Id like to be able to walk in relative safety.
The argument of gun laws doesnt boil down to this ridiculous topic that DAve is using. Gun control is a matter of uncontrolled ownership and brandishing of weapons. Its the ability to buy unchecked and unlimited amount of weapons pwer unit time. Its a lack of laws that dont control knowing who owns a gun, or lack of laws preventing felons to get a gun .
I choose to be protected by a gun simply because the rest of the gun laws have been castrated by the NRA and guys like Dave.

I disagree vehemently with Daves "uncontrolled ownership" of guns based upon some interpretation of the second amendment that isnt even in the second amendment.

"Shall not be infringed..." has been interpreted to mean "unlimited lack of control"
The 2A simply means that jurisdictionally
guns are beyond the reach of government, the same as Bibles.





David
farmerman
 
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Reply Fri 25 Sep, 2009 03:31 pm
@OmSigDAVID,
Quote:
guns are beyond the reach of government, the same as Bibles.
. Id rather be accosted by a thug brandishing a Bible though.

Are you admitting tht you could buy into specific control laws in order that guns not be so out ofcontrol?
roger
 
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Reply Fri 25 Sep, 2009 04:05 pm
@farmerman,
On the other hand, I've been accosted by more people carrying Bibles than guns. Well, pamphlets and literature to be more accurate.
Merry Andrew
 
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Reply Fri 25 Sep, 2009 04:06 pm
@roger,
roger wrote:

On the other hand, I've been accosted by more people carrying Bibles than guns. Well, pamphlets and literature to be more accurate.


And sometimes those folks are more scary than the gun-totin' ones.
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farmerman
 
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Reply Fri 25 Sep, 2009 04:18 pm
@roger,
any major wounds or paper cuts?
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aidan
 
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Reply Fri 25 Sep, 2009 04:20 pm
@OmSigDAVID,
Quote:
FROM A VICTIM's PERSPECTIVE: IS IT BETTER TO BE HELPLESS?

I don't think it's complicated at all - the answer to that question is: 'No'.
OmSigDAVID
 
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Reply Fri 25 Sep, 2009 05:15 pm
@farmerman,
farmerman wrote:

Quote:
guns are beyond the reach of government, the same as Bibles.
. Id rather be accosted by a thug brandishing a Bible though.

Are you admitting tht you could buy into specific control laws in order that guns not be so out of control?
Control by WHOM ?
farmerman
 
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Reply Fri 25 Sep, 2009 05:55 pm
@OmSigDAVID,
CONTROL on behalf of those who'd be victimized by unlawful use of guns by criminals. Apparently all the "gun freedoms" that you espouse, have not worked a damn. We are being drowned in gun crimes. Your side has no ideas, you are bankrupt when it comes to anything that will work.
OmSigDAVID
 
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Reply Fri 25 Sep, 2009 10:21 pm
@aidan,
aidan wrote:

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FROM A VICTIM's PERSPECTIVE: IS IT BETTER TO BE HELPLESS?

I don't think it's complicated at all - the answer to that question is: 'No'.
I have never been admitted to practice law in Europe,
nor have I studied the law of those jurisdictions, but I am under
the impression (I hope that this is not true) that in some European
jurisdictions: self defense is agains the law and threatening to injure
a violent criminal who is robbing u is a crime.

(That is only based upon anecdote.)

Rebecca:
I intend to put the OM SIG into 1 If By Land, 2 If By Sea (where we dined the 1st time)
on Monday Dec. 14th; u r welcome to join us if u r in America at that time.





David
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OmSigDAVID
 
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Reply Fri 25 Sep, 2009 10:51 pm
@farmerman,
farmerman wrote:

CONTROL on behalf of those who'd be victimized by unlawful use
of guns by criminals. Apparently all the "gun freedoms" that you espouse,
have not worked a damn. We are being drowned in gun crimes.
Your side has no ideas, you are bankrupt when it comes to anything that will work.

1 ) It is only playing with illusion, fantasy, to think that criminals
who will ignore the laws against robbery and who choose to disregard
the laws against burglary and murder will decide to obay gun control laws.

2 ) Those victims to whom u referred need defensive emergency equipment
in time of predatory violence against them; its a lot like needing a good jack n spare tire when u get a flat.

3 ) Correct me if I am rong, but u advocate USURPATION of power to reduce crime;
that government shoud overthrow the Constitution that constitutes it and take over America.
Given a choice: I 'll choose the criminals in preference to THAT.

The dichotomy is very simple, Farmer:
in a situation of predatory violence there is a contest of power
between the predators and their victims. WHO -- which side -- will preponderate ?
The pro-freedom side supports the victims and opposes discrimination as to who can legally defend his life,
whereas in contradistinction, the politically correct side desires those victims to be helpless so as not to harm
the disadvantaged minority groups that prey upon them.

The pro-freedom side supports equal protection of the law:
the 2A is for EVERY human being 's protection, no matter WHO u are.
When Martha Stewart walks down the street, she has as much right to shoot a robber as anyone else.

That does not (de jure) include the mentally vacant, as being "human."
(I expect u to turn the latter against me, asserting that I fall within the exception.)
Ceili
 
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Reply Fri 25 Sep, 2009 10:58 pm
If I may, in Canada (perhaps the Commonwealth) you can only use as much force as applied to you. So, unless your supposed attacker actually demonstrates he will do someone harm, you can't jump the gun per se and blow him away. You can only respond in kind, equal force eg: if a person throws a punch, you can't stab him with a knife and get away with it, unless you can prove your life was in danger and regardless of where the alleged offence took place you will be charged.
If you use an unregistered gun, the penalty is much steeper.

To answer your initial question, while there is no doubt it is best practice to be prepared for any and all situations, the reality is... it is nearly impossible.
When or if anyone is ever in any situation that they feel could possibly be dangerous, the best advice is always to put as much space between you and the trouble. No matter how well prepared you are, the element of surprise is always the best advantage.
And...
The more distance you can put between you and an attacker, the more time you will have to prepare and react to a dangerous situation. Gun or not.
OmSigDAVID
 
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Reply Sat 26 Sep, 2009 02:25 am
@Ceili,
Ceili wrote:

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If I may, in Canada (perhaps the Commonwealth) you can only use
as much force as applied to you. So, unless your supposed attacker
actually demonstrates he will do someone harm, you can't jump the gun per se and blow him away.
That law puts the defending, innocent citizen and his life at a disadvantage,
since the predator is free to be as aggressive as he wishes
and u r left to guess how severely he will afflict you.
Your government -- that u financially sustain -- limits your defense
and reduces your probability of survival. If u perish, the government is no worse off from it;
i.e., your government is loyal to the bad guy at the expense of the good guy.

For that reason, your government is evil.



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You can only respond in kind, equal force eg: if a person throws a punch,
you can't stab him with a knife and get away with it, unless you
can prove your life was in danger and regardless of where the
alleged offence took place you will be charged.
When u find out, it may be too late; u may have already suffered permanent injuries,
including death because of the Canadian government 's protection of the evil guy.
Shoud the elderly and weak wait until the aggressor has completed his attack
so that thay will know the degree of defensive force that thay shoud apply ?
Procrastination during the battle (unpredictably) can cause death or other grievous permanent injuries.
A few years ago, I became so weakened after surgery that I coud not walk.
I have not recovered full strength for almost 5 years.
Failure to fight aggressively can cause your own death,
for the criminal 's protection because government desires to protect him.




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If you use an unregistered gun, the penalty is much steeper.

U and your countrymen might need your guns to keep your government in line.
What if it becomes abusive?
What if it declares an indefinite moratorium on elections ?
Registering a gun HELPS your government, at your expense.
If your guns are registered, then that tells government where to go
if it decides to ROB u of your guns.





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To answer your initial question, while there is no doubt it is best practice
to be prepared for any and all situations, the reality is... it is nearly impossible.

With that in mind, when a politician is running for election and begging for your vote,
u owe it to yourself to demand to know whether his loyalty will be to YOU or to the government ??
Vote for politicians who will represent YOU not the government.

Remember: the relationship between government and the citizen is one of ADVERSITY.



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When or if anyone is ever in any situation that they feel could
possibly be dangerous, the best advice is always to put as much
space between you and the trouble. No matter how well
prepared you are, the element of surprise is always the best advantage.
And...
The more distance you can put between you and an attacker,
the more time you will have to prepare and react to a dangerous situation. Gun or not.
That is not in question.
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farmerman
 
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Reply Sat 26 Sep, 2009 05:09 am
@OmSigDAVID,
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3 ) Correct me if I am rong, but u advocate USURPATION of power to reduce crime;
that government shoud overthrow the Constitution that constitutes it and take over America.
Given a choice: I 'll choose the criminals in preference to THAT.
Thats total squatfudge Dave, the Constitution IS SILENT on all the crap you say it contains. The second Amendment is quite simply written with no codicils and wheras's that extend its power to the extent taht it lives today. Its been years of SUPREME COURT definitions which have added the extra cushioning to underpin an entire industry.
THOSE things can be overturned. Perhaps not in our lifetimes but they must be overturned if we ever wish to become civilized.

I am a gun owner and user and I choose self protection because I dont trust the criminal who breaks into my house to be "kind" to me. I expect that hed wish to keep us silent and I operate with that in mind. BEWARE criminal, you will be shot.


HOWEVER, the uncontrolled expansion of the special rules that govern gun ownership and carry have gotten out of control and I have hope that , in a society someday, we will relinquish this gun crazy fixation .

Quote:
in a situation of predatory violence there is a contest of power
between the predators and their victims. WHO -- which side -- will preponderate ?
The pro-freedom side supports the victims and opposes discrimination as to who can legally defend his life,
whereas in contradistinction, the politically correct side desires those victims to be helpless so as not to harm
the disadvantaged minority groups that prey upon them.


Sadly that is true TODAY. However That doesnt mean we should just sit on our asses and not try to change society so that such expansion of these crazy laws is the only way to preserve peace and quiet. I choose to keep my lawmakers advised that Im not for an Oligarchy of gun manufacture and I want some reasonable control on gun ownership, purchase , and responsibility. We are too much under control by an entire industry that has no real ethical rudder and you are just another industry shill who creates arguments that are based upon some bleak inevitability of condition. I say that we are a civilization still evolving into our climax condition and the present gun laws will need to be tossed just like most of capitol punishment.

.
farmerman
 
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Reply Sat 26 Sep, 2009 05:11 am
@farmerman,
When you get into gun ownership Dave, I begin to see a streak of libertarianism in your posts. Are you a libertarian?
OmSigDAVID
 
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Reply Sat 26 Sep, 2009 03:53 pm
@farmerman,
farmerman wrote:

When you get into gun ownership Dave,
I begin to see a streak of libertarianism in your posts. Are you a libertarian?
YES. Have u detected deviations on my part
from libertarianism ?

I shoud be careful in asking this question
because I am keenly aware that there are
much differing schools of thawt qua the definition thereof.
I have attended many meetings with purported libertarians
who were quite libertarian about how much to differ in their views among themselves.





David
farmerman
 
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Reply Sat 26 Sep, 2009 03:56 pm
@OmSigDAVID,
My dealings with libertarians has been mixed. I find that I can listen and be included within the scope of their lamenst and then, without notice, the liberatarian seems just to leave the planet.



 

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