@Debra Law,
Quote:You are no expert and your ill-conceived attempt to blame the victim is REPULSIVE.
Your wrong turn is your need to blame individuals for what human nature is. It is what it is, maybe it is from GOD or maybe not, but it is not the product of individuals. Your blame games are a complete waste of effort, because it will not change anything. You can blame the perp all you want, but he is clearly ill, agents of the collective knew that he was ill and never got him help and never sufficiently watched over him. Your blaming the perp for all of this is juvenile, it it all of our faults.
Until and unless Jaycee heals she will blame herself, she will make the same mistake you do, pinning the blame on one person. She has been traumatized....what is your excuse??