@Tai Chi,
Good Lord girl, you need to get a life! We are not that interesting to think of us unless you have to. We are a bunch of needy attention seekers and it seems we have invaded your personal life, you poor thing.
A2K people are not worth thinking about in real life - now reality shows like Survivor, Bachelor or Bachelorette, Idol, Biggest Loser, Amazing Race, etc. are things you should be thinking about and wasting your time on.