JLNobody writes:
Nevertheless, the world would be a better place to live in if self-centeredness were expressed more often in the altruistic version than in the greedy one.
Is that the direction of enlightenment? I think so. The more I treat (perceived) others as my perceived self the more they become me, although less diversity leads to less creativity, less competition less development?
You wrote:
Compassion, on the other hand--which is different from pity--reflects perception sans feeling of self and separation from those with whom we have empathy. THAT is spiritually whole and fundamentally selfless. IMHO.
A little idealized JL
imho,
"Compassion"..
Deep awareness of the suffering of another coupled with the wish to relieve it
is a great feeling (and awareness) that a "self" has, so I wouldn't agree that "compassion reflects "sans feeling of self and separation from those with whom we have empathy"., though it certainly brings people together in "relationship", in common feelings, desires and needs and the egalitarian wish to fulfill them.
By definition one has to have "feelings" of self in order to have compassion, i.e. I feel as you do, my feelings and thoguhts agree with yours etc.
Although you may be thinking deeper or beyond definitions.