nemesis wrote:Sofia: you gave the evidence.
1. you remember your good deeds.
2. you tell about them to others.
didn't Christ say your left hand oughtn't to know what your right hand is doing? if you did a good deed just for the sake of it, you should have forgotten about it by now.
but no, you have to tell the world just how big your heart is!
now try to prove you didn't feed animals just so you could tell about it later. or to ease your own guilt and appear better than you are in your own eyes and others'.
You should read more closely, before you criticise someone else.
I said they
weren't good deeds. I just wanted to do those things to ease my own personal pain of knowing dogs were starving, and children had cold feet. I'm way too sensitive toward children and dogs (as I suspect Montana is), and their plight often stays ith me days after witnessing their need-- I can't get the mental picture out of my mind easily. Trying to help them, and actually being able to, relieves my sadness--so I've incorporated that into my life. Not a good deed, because it is selfish. I did it for me, as much as I did for those to whom I gave. I got a kick out of it. (And they benefit, as well.)
I'm not ashamed to tell the people on this board things that put me in a decidedly negative light. And, I didn't feel like I had to hide this subject, either. It flowed from the conversation... I feel comfortable sharing my opinion on any subject here, really.
--I just read on, and have to thank you for the laugh. I was really pissed at you before I saw this--
Quote:now try to prove you didn't feed animals just so you could tell about it later. or to ease your own guilt and appear better than you are in your own eyes and others'.
My motivation feeding animals was so I could tell people about it later...?
That was funny. I think you may be transferring your motivations on to me-- People generally do this when they can't concieve of others' reasoning. Its OK if you don't do things for other people. But, its not OK to condemn my motivations, just because you can't understand them.
And Montana is right. I didn't feel self-conscious at all sharing this with this group of people, especially her--because we know one another--and understand our motivations. You are new, and don't know us from Jack.
Responding to this--
Quote:Motivation is an interesting topic in itself but if Sofia doesn't want to discuss her motivation, I'll leave her alone.
I was watching a movie with my daughter... I think you have bitten off a bit more than you can chew. Why don't we discuss who appointed you the judge of others' motivations? And, while we're discussing that, shall we discuss your motives in spending an inordinate amount of your time being unnecessarily rude to other people?
Montana-- I read back and saw what you said. You can speak for me anytime. Thank you for the benefit of the doubt. :wink: