@tycoon,
Your understanding of scripture is stunning, to say the least.
What Jesus said to his mother was hardly a rebuke. And, he did fulfill her implied wishes.
The cursing of the fig tree requires a little more explaining:
First, not all cursing is 4 letter words; for that, you would have to read Rabsheka's words to Hezekiah in the King James Version - very racy. . .
The fig tree, like many events in the Gospels, is figurative. (No pun intended)
It represented Jesus' opinion of 'religious' people and organizations not bearing fruit. It was a condemnation of the 1st century Hebrews as well as the many churches throughout history who have participated in uncountable acts of bloodshed.