@Walter Hinteler,
I can only agree with you.
On the other hand if I as a foster mother - in this case there is no foster father - or as foster parents shouldn´t I in certain areas influence the foster child?
Correct behavior, learn to get up in time for school, have some duties in the house - just like you would with your own children.
Then there are other things in which I might or might not influence children:
political views, relgious views and other areas.
Depending on my own behavior the influence will be different.
If I force my kids against their will to go to church they probably will get to dislike it. If I don´t force them they might like to go. If I forbid them they might even join the church.
Whatever you do it is wrong. (smile)