@hawkeye10,
First, your argument for "rights that they never had" is completely wrong. Everyone in this country who is a natural citizen is assumed to have the same rights as every other citizen of the country. You want to be political about this... it is the political system that has prevented homosexuals from having any rights at all. Did you know that in the majority of states you can be fired for being homosexual, but you can't be fired for being clinically declared mentally unbalanced? Did you know that the reason that is the case is because politicians continually refuse to act on such bills, much as we did for equal rights for women and african americans? Perhaps the reason there has to be a gay rights movement at all is simply because, much as the pre-Civil Rights movement America was, we are to ignorant and unwilling to accept something that heterosexuals can't comprehend.
The APA was lobbied because there was no scientific evidence to have homosexuality listed as a mental disorder (something that's already been argued to death on here). Why was it even listed there in the first place? Because people didn't understand it and were scared of what they don't understand. Had the APA not been lobbied and presented with evidence that homosexuality was not a mental disorder, it would more than likely have just been left on the books (much like civil rights laws in the 1960s).
You seem so outraged by the thought of people trying to make something right where they see a wrong by lobbying and being politically active, yet you then go on to speak of the great good that politics can do?
Finally, the ultimate hypocrisy in your argument is when you say that "Minorities have the right to be heard, to make their case, to try and convinced, to attempt to make minority views the majority view." From my experience, and from what I have read and seen, YOUR view is the minority. However, to drive home the point, the majority view pre-women's suffrage was that women were second class citizens. Guess what they did? They marched in the streets, they lobbied congress, they protested. Sound familiar? Do you honestly believe that they did something wrong? What about the Civil Rights movement and Martin Luther King, Jr.? They staged rallies that brought in MILLIONS of people.. were they in the wrong because they were the minority opinion?