Debra Law
 
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Reply Tue 2 Dec, 2008 02:02 pm
@Woiyo9,
Woiyo9 wrote:

Debra Law =
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Accordingly, although we agree with the Attorney General that the provisions of the Domestic Partner Act afford same-sex couples most of the substantive attributes to which they are constitutionally entitled under the state constitutional right to marry, we conclude that the current statutory assignment of different designations to the official family relationship of opposite-sex couples and of same-sex couples properly must be viewed as potentially impinging upon the state constitutional right of same-sex couples to marry.


This statement you posted proves there is no discrimination against homosexuals. We do not legislate how people "feel".

You so called "elitists" feel good about yourselves when you think you can call people bigots when there is no proof of that within my commentary.

I laugh at you!


You're a BIGOT and an OPPRESSOR because you abuse the power and authority of the State to discriminate against disfavored individuals and minorities.

Even when you take the Court's statement out of context, the statement does not support your conclusion that "there is no discrimination against homosexuals." Homosexuals are in fact denied the right to marry, through the operation of state law, on the basis of their sexual orientation. That is discrimination. Providing homosexual couples with a separate but unequal "domestic partnership" with "most of the substantive attributes" of marriage does not negate the state-imposed discrimination. Relegating an entire class of individuals to the segregated status of second-class citizenship does not now, nor has it ever, cured violations of the equal protection clause.

In re Marriage Cases
http://www.courtinfo.ca.gov/opinions/archive/S147999.PDF

Excerpt at 103-105:

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First, because of the long and celebrated history of the term “marriage” and the widespread understanding that this term describes a union unreservedly approved and favored by the community, there clearly is a considerable and undeniable symbolic importance to this designation. Thus, it is apparent that affording access to this designation exclusively to opposite-sex couples, while providing same-sex couples access to only a novel alternative designation, realistically must be viewed as constituting significantly unequal treatment to same-sex couples. In this regard, plaintiffs persuasively invoke by analogy the decisions of the United States Supreme Court finding inadequate a state’s creation of a separate law school for Black students rather than granting such students access to the University of Texas Law School (Sweatt v. Painter,(1950) 339 U.S. 629, 634),67 and a state’s founding of a separate military program for women rather than admitting women to the Virginia Military Institute (United States v. Virginia (1996) 518 U.S. 515, 555-556). As plaintiffs maintain, these high court decisions demonstrate that even when the state grants ostensibly equal benefits to a previously excluded class through the creation of a new institution, the intangible symbolic differences that remain often are constitutionally significant.

Second, particularly in light of the historic disparagement of and discrimination against gay persons, there is a very significant risk that retaining a distinction in nomenclature with regard to this most fundamental of relationships whereby the term “marriage” is denied only to same-sex couples inevitably will cause the new parallel institution that has been made available to those couples to be viewed as of a lesser stature than marriage and, in effect, as a mark of second class citizenship. As the Canada Supreme Court observed in an analogous context: “One factor which may demonstrate that legislation that treats a claimant differently has the effect of demeaning the claimant’s dignity is the existence of pre-existing disadvantage, stereotyping, prejudice, or vulnerability experienced by the individual or group at issue. . . . ‘ . . . It is logical to conclude that, in most cases, further differential treatment will contribute to the perpetuation or promotion of their unfair social characterization, and will have a more severe impact upon them, since they are already vulnerable.’ ” (M. v. H. [1999] 2 S.C.R. 3, 54-55 [¶ 68].)

Third, it also is significant that although the meaning of the term “marriage” is well understood by the public generally, the status of domestic partnership is not. While it is true that this circumstance may change over time, it is difficult to deny that the unfamiliarity of the term “domestic partnership” is likely, for a considerable period of time, to pose significant difficulties and complications for same-sex couples, and perhaps most poignantly for their children, that would not be presented if, like opposite-sex couples, same-sex couples were permitted access to the established and well-understood family relationship of marriage....

Under these circumstances, we conclude that the distinction drawn by the current California statutes between the designation of the family relationship available to opposite-sex couples and the designation available to same-sex couples impinges upon the fundamental interest of same-sex couples in having their official family relationship accorded dignity and respect equal to that conferred upon the family relationship of opposite-sex couples.
Woiyo9
 
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Reply Tue 2 Dec, 2008 02:51 pm
@Debra Law,
Debra Law =
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You're a BIGOT and an OPPRESSOR because you abuse the power and authority of the State to discriminate against disfavored individuals and minorities.


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Now you add minorities to the discussion? What exactly is a minority? Is a Native American a minority?
Debra Law
 
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Reply Tue 2 Dec, 2008 03:23 pm
@Woiyo9,
Woiyo9 wrote:
Now you add minorities to the discussion?


Now? We've been talking about the constitutional security for the rights of individuals and minorities for many, many pages. Pay attention to the discussion so that I don't have to keep repeating myself. From page 3:


http://able2know.org/topic/124910-3#post-3466627

Debra Law wrote:

Brandon9000 wrote:

Debra Law wrote:
...Under our system of government...

Well, look folks. You've made it clear before that you don't give a damn about the will of the people and prefer to have laws passed by liberal courts. Why don't you try to have the three state votes nullified by a court - maybe pretend that it violates the national constitution, since gay marriage was so obviously on the Founders' minds in the 1780s?


Brandon:

Your statements above demonstrate that you have showered yourself in ignorance. That's not acceptable.

From the time of the signing of the Declaration of Independence in 1776 to the present, millions of our countrymen (and women) have sacrificed their lives and their limbs for FREEDOM from tyranny. An ocean of blood was shed on the bloody battle fields of the Revolutionary War and is still being shed in two wars in the Middle East. Unless you are willing to pronounce that our brave and nobel warriors have shed their blood for naught, then you owe it to them to learn the basic concepts upon which this country was founded and for which we fight to preserve.

Our government was not designed by our founders to be a pure democracy where "the will of the people" prevails regardless of what that "will" may be. In a pure democracy, 51 percent of the people (a majority) is capable of forming a coalition for the purpose of oppressing the remaining 49 percent of the people. However, coalitions of people always shift. One day you might be the beneficiary of a majority coalition, but the next day you could be in the minority.

One day you could be the smug man who holds the torch and lights the fire that burns your fellow citizen at the stake because the majority declared her to be a witch. The next day, however, you won't be so smug when they drag you to the stockade to await your own witch trial. In the absence of checks and balances, the basic rights of individuals (to life, liberty, property, and the pursuit of happiness) can never be secure from tyranny and oppression in a climate of shifting winds and fires.

Our founders understood that freedom can be lost in many ways, not just at the hands of an oppressive and tyrannical dictator. Individual rights can be lost at the hands of the majority. To protect and secure ALL the people of this nation from tyranny and oppression (in whatever form it takes), our founders designed a consitutional republic with checks and balances distributed among three branches of government. The judicial branch of government is our last bastion of hope and liberty that stands between the individual and the government.

Don't take my word on the foregoing. Read the Federalist Papers. Jump ahead to the Federalist No. 51:

The Structure of the Government Must Furnish the Proper Checks and Balances Between the Different Departments

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It is of great importance in a republic not only to guard the society against the oppression of its rulers, but to guard one part of the society against the injustice of the other part. Different interests necessarily exist in different classes of citizens. If a majority be united by a common interest, the rights of the minority will be insecure….

In a free government the security for civil rights must be the same as that for religious rights….

Justice is the end of government. It is the end of civil society. It ever has been and ever will be pursued until it be obtained, or until liberty be lost in the pursuit. In a society under the forms of which the stronger faction can readily unite and oppress the weaker, anarchy may as truly be said to reign as in a state of nature, where the weaker individual is not secured against the violence of the stronger; and as, in the latter state, even the stronger individuals are prompted, by the uncertainty of their condition, to submit to a government which may protect the weak as well as themselves; so, in the former state, will the more powerful factions or parties be gradnally induced, by a like motive, to wish for a government which will protect all parties, the weaker as well as the more powerful….


http://thomas.loc.gov/home/histdox/fedpapers.html

Thus, our Founders recognized that the very essense of the REPUBLICAN CAUSE is security for civil rights and justice for ALL: the weaker as well as the more powerful. It is that security and protection that is our birthright as Americans and it will forever be pursued by the weaker classes of persons in civil society until it is obtained. Our republican form of government was designed to enable the liberty interests of the minority to be secured and protected against the injustices of the majority.

If it were not for those damn "liberal" Founders and all those damn "liberals" who came after them who have fought, bled, and died for the security of civil rights for all individuals, we would NOT live in the greatest nation on earth. YOU would not be the beneficiary of the freedoms that you enjoy today. Therefore, when you foam at the mouth and blast the "liberal" courts when they fullfill their designed role and enforce the civil rights of minorities, you are demeaning all of our brave warriors who gave their lives and limbs to create our special form of government and to secure your individual rights.


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Copper Seth
 
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Reply Tue 2 Dec, 2008 03:59 pm
@Debra Law,
The connection between polygamy and gay marriage is not that far off. As the justice's dissent of the Reynolds vs. US case shows that if you allow polygamy, then where do you draw the line, and will judicial precedent justify religious sacrifice of human beings, and so on.

You contrast polygamy with gay marriage by nit picking petty legal ramifications; inheritance, power of attorney, etc. But those were not legal justifications in criminalizing polygamy so they must not have been considerd an issue. Rather, moral and social affects carried the most weight in their decision. With gay marriage, there are plenty of psychological side affects that have been shown to negatively influence children and society. You don't promote a single parent family, so why promote a single sex family, when case after case shows that a child must be nourished with both maternal and paternal influences.

And if you really want to exploit the 14the amendment, then I'm sure you will also agree that it would also consider affirmative action to be unconstitutional as well as raising taxes on certain individuals. Right?
Debra Law
 
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Reply Tue 2 Dec, 2008 05:30 pm
@Copper Seth,
Copper Seth wrote:

The connection between polygamy and gay marriage is not that far off.


You have made an invalid argument. You stated a conclusion. You failed to set forth any truthful premises or facts in support of your conclusion. Regardless, slippery slope arguments are inherently invalid. There is no evidence that monogamy somehow leads society down the path to polygamy.

By and through our laws, the state sanctions monogamy. However, the state does not sanction polygamy. Absolutely no individual is allowed to engage in polygamy. Not one single person in this country is allowed to be married to more than one person at the same time. Accordingly, no state discrimination exists.

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As the justice's dissent of the Reynolds vs. US case shows that if you allow polygamy, then where do you draw the line, and will judicial precedent justify religious sacrifice of human beings, and so on.


There is no dissenting opinion in the Reynolds case.

There is no evidence that if the state allows monogamy, then the state must allow polygamy, and then the state must allow human sacrifice. Your slippery slope argument is getting more and more ridiculous.

With respect to the true holding in Reynolds, freedom of religion secured by the Constitution is not a license to violate laws of general applicability. The law doesn't allow people to be married to more than one person at a time, and the law doesn't allow people to kill other people even though they may desire to do so for religious purposes.

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You contrast polygamy with gay marriage by nit picking petty legal ramifications; inheritance, power of attorney, etc. But those were not legal justifications in criminalizing polygamy so they must not have been considerd an issue. Rather, moral and social affects carried the most weight in their decision.


I do not contrast polygamy with gay marriage. I contrast polygamy with monogamy.

If the state allowed some people to engage in polygamy, but disallowed others on the basis of their race or sexual orientation, then the state would be violating the equal protection clause. Because the State does not allow anyone to engage in polygamy, no discrimination exists among similarly situated classes of people. On the other hand, having chosen to officially sanction monogamy through the operation of our laws, the State must make monogamous marriages available to all similarly situated classes of people.


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With gay marriage, there are plenty of psychological side affects that have been shown to negatively influence children and society.


Homosexual parents and heterosexual parents are equally capable of raising and nurturing children in stable homes. The only perceivable negative impact on children is your discrimination of their parents based on your bigotry. At the same time you're slinging your rocks and flinging your arrows at people, you have the audacity to claim that their children will be harmed by the slings and arrows of a disapproving society.

The same as you do not have a heckler's veto to suppress speech that you disfavor, you may not use your own harmful prejudice as an excuse to perpetuate that harmful prejudice.

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You don't promote a single parent family, so why promote a single sex family, when case after case shows that a child must be nourished with both maternal and paternal influences.


Society promotes responsible parenthood in whatever form it takes. We no longer brand children as illegitimate bastards based on the marital status of their parents. As a society, we do not punish children simply because they are born into or raised in a non-traditional family. In modern times, very few families comport with your notions of tradition.

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And if you really want to exploit the 14the amendment, then I'm sure you will also agree that it would also consider affirmative action to be unconstitutional as well as raising taxes on certain individuals. Right?


I am not exploiting the 14th Amendment.

If you want to discuss affirmative action or our progressive tax structure, start a new thread.
Debra Law
 
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Reply Tue 2 Dec, 2008 06:16 pm
@Cycloptichorn,
Cycloptichorn wrote:

Debra, the other side of the argument does not recognize the necessity or even ability of removing one's personal opinion from questions of equality and justice. That's what really gets me about this discussion.

Cycloptichorn


I agree. It's unbelievable. My own sister in CA voted to oppress homosexual persons and to deny them the right to marry. I'm so disappointed in her. She's been married THREE times. I think she's engaged to Copper Seth and will soon enter her FOURTH marriage. I guess that means she's doing her part to INCREASE the VALUE of marriage.
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Copper Seth
 
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Reply Tue 2 Dec, 2008 07:16 pm
@Debra Law,
Debra, you are proving my first statement to be ABSOLUTELY correct. If someone does not agree with YOU, their arguments are deemed unworthy of respect by YOU. It sould come to no surprise, then, that you think that my arguments are invalid and false. What qualifies you as the ABSOLUTE authority on this subject matter that you will dismiss any argument that stands against your assumptions and opinions for the only reason that they are FALSE is because YOU say so?

The fundamental right you keep claiming is yours was deemed a fundamental right because it serves the purpose for preserving the human race. You keep forgetting to include the entire quote. So, here it is..."Marriage is one of the "basic civil rights of man," fundamental to our very existence and survival." There is a reason it was deemed as a fundamental right...our survival. How does same sex marriage serve the puropse of our survival? Married couples no only are capable of naturally reproducing life, but studies show that children that grow up in two parent homes lead more well adjusted lives. How does this effect society???

First off, homosexuality as a behavior reduces life...the 1.4% of women and 2.8% of men identify themselves as "Homosexual" or "bisexual" account for nearly 70% of HIV cases (DCD HIV/AIDS Fact Sheet, HIV/AIDS Among Men Who Have Sex with Men, Center for Disease Control, www.CDC.gov/hiv)... Homosexual men are 1000x more likely to contract AIDS than the general population (The HIV/AIDS Surveillance Report, U.S. Deparement of Health and Human Services, Center for Disease Control, National Center for infectious Diseases, Division of HIV/AIDS, through December 2001)... Homosexual youth are 4x more likely to suffer major depression, 3x more likely to suffer generalized anxiety disorder, 4x more likely to experience conduct disorders, 4x as likely to commit suicide, 5x more likely to have nicotine dependence, 6x more likely to suffer muldiple disorders, and 6x more likely to have attempted suicide (Theo G.M. Sandiforte, T. Graaf, R. Biji, R. Schnable, P.2001. Same Sex Sexual Behavior and Psychiatric Disorders: Findings from the Netherlands Mental Health Survey and Incidence. Archives of General Phychiatry 58:85-91)

Secondly, marriage is designed to be a life long commitment. Studies from a couple countries where same sex marriage is legal shows that homosexual marriages lasted approximately 2 years (M.S. Bell, A.P. Weinberg, Homosexualities A Study of Diversity Among Men & Women, An Official Publication of the Institute for Sex Research (Kinsey) Publisher: Simon and Schuster (1978)) Another study backs this claim to say that the average homosexual marriage lasted less than 2 years (Kennedy, D. James: Newcombe, Jerry. What's Wrong with Same Sex Marriage? Wheaton, IL: Crossway Books, 2004) That same study found that the average married gay person has six partners per year in addition to their significant other. Another study found that 5 homosexual marriages are performed for every 1,000 heterosexual marriages...gay men are 50% more likely to divorce within an eight year period than heterosexual couples...gay women are 167% more likely to divorce than heterosexual couples (Gunnar Anderson et al, "The Demographics of Same-Sex Marriage in Norway and Sweeden" Demography 43, 2006, p. 79-98)

I think that these statistics alone constitute a COMPELLING state interest that is served by depriving gay couples the right to marriage, as you would put it.

I would like to point out that you are NOT in favor of equality for ALL. You are for equality for homosexual and heterosexual individuals. YOU are therefore an oppressor to to the bisexual individual, polygamist, and those that want to marry within their own famliy. So, please stop claiming that you are pushing equality for ALL, when you most clearly are NOT.

The issue of bisexuality, polygamy, and marriage within a family is the third way your reasoning can hurt society. If the courts allow for same sex marriage based on the reasoning you have presented, it would be easy to see how bisexuals, polygamists, and those that wish to marry within their family could use the same argument to justify their positions. After all, you say that we should be able to choose to marry WHOMEVER we love. The designs to limit marriage to a man and a woman were drawn to protect society.
Debra Law
 
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Reply Tue 2 Dec, 2008 09:14 pm
@Copper Seth,
Copper Seth wrote:

Debra, you are proving my first statement to be ABSOLUTELY correct. If someone does not agree with YOU, their arguments are deemed unworthy of respect by YOU. It sould come to no surprise, then, that you think that my arguments are invalid and false. What qualifies you as the ABSOLUTE authority on this subject matter that you will dismiss any argument that stands against your assumptions and opinions for the only reason that they are FALSE is because YOU say so?


You're whining. A valid argument consists of one or more premises that support a conclusion. In order for the conclusion to be valid, the premises must be true.

I have repeatedly reponded to all of your conclusions. Most of the time, you haven't even bothered to support your conclusions. Those rare times that you have based your conclusion on some premise, your premise is false or irrelevant (e.g. homosexuality is a sin). You fail to understand that your religious views belong to you and that you cannot force those views on our entire society through the operation of our laws.

Government discrimination against individuals and minorities must be NECESSARY to serve a COMPELLING State interest. Although you may think government discrimination against homosexuals is necessary to serve YOUR religious belief that homosexuality is a sin, our government does not exist to serve YOUR religious beliefs. It exists to secure liberty and justice for ALL CITIZENS--even the citizens who do not share your religious beliefs.

The Court did NOT create a new constitutional right out of whole cloth. I explained in detail why this conclusion was wrong. Rather than refute my explanation, you whine. That's what you do.

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The fundamental right you keep claiming is yours was deemed a fundamental right because it serves the purpose for preserving the human race. You keep forgetting to include the entire quote. So, here it is..."Marriage is one of the "basic civil rights of man," fundamental to our very existence and survival." There is a reason it was deemed as a fundamental right...our survival. How does same sex marriage serve the puropse of our survival? Married couples no only are capable of naturally reproducing life, but studies show that children that grow up in two parent homes lead more well adjusted lives. How does this effect society???


Again, there is no support for your conclusion. Marriage is not necessary for procreation. With or without the "benefit" of legal marriage or any other law regulating their conduct, humans will continue to perpetuate our species. You could outlaw marriage tomorrow, but babies would still be conceived and would still be born. Additionally, the law itself does not confine marriage to couples who are capable of reproducing. No one is required to have an ability or an intent to produce children as a prerequisite to obtaining a state-issued marriage license.

With or without the "benefit" of marriage or any other law regulating their conduct, humans will always act upon their innate attraction to other humans and they will form themselves into couples-- sometimes temporarily and sometimes permanently. The Reynolds Court stated:

"Marriage, while from its very nature a sacred obligation, is nevertheless, in most civilized nations, a civil contract, and usually regulated by law. Upon it society may be said to be built, and out of its fruits spring social relations and social obligations and duties, with which government is necessarily required to deal."

The Loving Court also said, "The freedom to marry has long been recognized as one of the vital personal rights essential to the orderly pursuit of happiness by free men." Like it or not, homosexual individuals are forming themselves into couples. They exist. They are bearing children. They are adopting children. They are forming families. Their families exist. Homosexuals are forming social relations, obligations, and duties, with which government is necessarily required to deal. They are a part of our society the same as you and your fiancee are a part of socieity. The success of our society rests upon the "orderly" pursuit of happiness by the individuals who comprise that society. History shows that discrimination and the denial of basic freedoms to individuals and their families causes societal unrest. If we are to survive as a society, then we must enforce our most cherished constitutional tenet: EQUAL PROTECTION of the LAW.

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First off, homosexuality as a behavior reduces life...the 1.4% of women and 2.8% of men identify themselves as "Homosexual" or "bisexual" account for nearly 70% of HIV cases (DCD HIV/AIDS Fact Sheet, HIV/AIDS Among Men Who Have Sex with Men, Center for Disease Control, www.CDC.gov/hiv)... Homosexual men are 1000x more likely to contract AIDS than the general population (The HIV/AIDS Surveillance Report, U.S. Deparement of Health and Human Services, Center for Disease Control, National Center for infectious Diseases, Division of HIV/AIDS, through December 2001)... Homosexual youth are 4x more likely to suffer major depression, 3x more likely to suffer generalized anxiety disorder, 4x more likely to experience conduct disorders, 4x as likely to commit suicide, 5x more likely to have nicotine dependence, 6x more likely to suffer muldiple disorders, and 6x more likely to have attempted suicide (Theo G.M. Sandiforte, T. Graaf, R. Biji, R. Schnable, P.2001. Same Sex Sexual Behavior and Psychiatric Disorders: Findings from the Netherlands Mental Health Survey and Incidence. Archives of General Phychiatry 58:85-91)


Based on the above, the State has a compelling interest in encouraging marriage for homosexual couples. People in committed monogamous relationships are less likely to be exposed to sexual diseases. Instead of stigmatizing and stereotypying a vulnerable segment of society and subjecting them to irrational discrimination based on prejudice and bigotry, we should remove those stressors that inevitably cause depression, anxiety, suicide, etc.

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Secondly, marriage is designed to be a life long commitment. Studies from a couple countries where same sex marriage is legal shows that homosexual marriages lasted approximately 2 years ...


Banning homosexual marriages because some study indicates that some of those marriages might not be as "enduring" as some heterosexual marriages is not necessary to serve any state interest. If the State has a compelling interest in ensuring that marriage is a "life long commitment," then the State could ban divorces. But so long as married heterosexual couples are allowed to divorce, married homosexual couples must be allowed to divorce too.

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I would like to point out that you are NOT in favor of equality for ALL. You are for equality for homosexual and heterosexual individuals. YOU are therefore an oppressor to to the bisexual individual, polygamist, and those that want to marry within their own famliy. So, please stop claiming that you are pushing equality for ALL, when you most clearly are NOT.


You fail to understand the Equal Protection Clause. Justice Scalia said, "Our salvation is the Equal Protection Clause, which requires the democratic majority to accept for themselves and their loved ones what they impose on you and me."

Thus, if you ban polygamy for others, you must ban it for yourself. You have done that. If you ban incestuous marriages for others, you must ban incestuous marriage for yourself. You have done that. If you ban marriage for others, you must ban it for yourself. YOU HAVE NOT DONE THAT. You intend to retain your right to marry while you voted to deny that right to others. You are an oppressor, not me. I have never voted to deny the fundamental right to marry to anyone.



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Diest TKO
 
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Reply Tue 2 Dec, 2008 09:19 pm
With nothing but my phone to read this thread, it's been torture of the last few days.

Copper Seth - You are trying to say that homosexuals struggle in relationships and as a community struggle with disease, and somehow that is a legitimate argument against allowing gays to marry. That's not a point. That's spin. Nothing more. Besides, having a disease does not disqualify a heterosexual from marriage, so your point is completely irrelevant. Your statements RE: infidelity are riddled with hypocrite spin too. Look at the sheep volume of straight marriages that have infidelity, your right to marry is still based on your choices and not limited by the state.

Woiyo9 - Yes, homosexuals are a minority. Yes, Native Americans are a minority. If you think that you can undefined someone else's struggle by punctuating yours, you are wrong. Just because you can't readily identify or relate to it, doesn't mean that homosexuals have not endured some of history's worst prejudice.

What's that you said? "Logic is in the eye of the beholder?" Never has someone been so honest as you to openly disqualify themselves as a "beholder." Cyclo put it as clear as it needs to be. This illustrates why you are a dismissable person in this dialog. If you don't understand logic, then what's the point of me or anyone else for that matter talking to you?

Hawkeye10 - No prolonged argument? Seriously? What game are you watching? You've been presented real historical facts negating your claims about gays. You've been presented real case law disputing your claims about gay oppression. You've had everyone of your arguments addressed in full, and for that matter to a degree much larger than you deserved. What have you brought? Closed eyes, and ears.

I read what the oppressors of gays have to say and it's like I'm listening to children describing why they think the sky is blue because god like blue crayons. No attempt at educating the youngster about things like light refraction and the material properties of gasses helps because they don't have the foundation to understand it. You can get mad, but they won't understand it any better--they're children.

But you guys aren't children, so you don't have the excuses for not educating yourself. You think you can sit at the table without understanding the issue. You think you can build a plane, because you've flown in one or even seen a picture of one.

I saw this video, and I was reminded about the ideas in the heads of you three and your ilk. Enjoy the sublime.

You don't understand the issue, but you think you can speak on it.

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Cycloptichorn
 
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Reply Tue 2 Dec, 2008 09:25 pm
@Copper Seth,
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There is a reason it was deemed as a fundamental right...our survival. How does same sex marriage serve the puropse of our survival?


This is where your logic breaks down. Everything that follows is invalidated by this false assumption of yours.

Cycloptichorn
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Debra Law
 
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Reply Tue 2 Dec, 2008 09:53 pm
@Diest TKO,
Diest TKO wrote:

With nothing but my phone to read this thread, it's been torture of the last few days.


Welcome back . . . .



ROFL

On second thought, not so funny. It's a sad commentary on the long-term effect of the anti-intellectualism movement that stole our country.
Diest TKO
 
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Reply Tue 2 Dec, 2008 10:21 pm
@Debra Law,
http://www.zefrank.com/theshow/archives/2006/05/050506.html

Here... This could help.

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Woiyo9
 
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Reply Wed 3 Dec, 2008 08:44 am
Debra Law offers =
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However, the state does not sanction polygamy. Absolutely no individual is allowed to engage in polygamy. Not one single person in this country is allowed to be married to more than one person at the same time. Accordingly, no state discrimination exists.


EXACTLY. The Federal Govt does not discriminate against homosexuals either.
Debra Law
 
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Reply Wed 3 Dec, 2008 09:54 am
@Woiyo9,
Woiyo9 wrote:

Debra Law offers =
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However, the state does not sanction polygamy. Absolutely no individual is allowed to engage in polygamy. Not one single person in this country is allowed to be married to more than one person at the same time. Accordingly, no state discrimination exists.


EXACTLY. The Federal Govt does not discriminate against homosexuals either.


That's right, Woiyo9. Homosexuals are not allowed to engage in polygamy.
Woiyo9
 
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Reply Wed 3 Dec, 2008 10:05 am
@Debra Law,
Homosexuals, just like all other people are allowed to live with as many people as they like. Those people who want to live together can even pass property, make medical decision and carry on their lives just like all others.

Their "relationship", however, would not be legally recognized as a marriage. Yet, they can live and love each other just like anyone else.

Again, you continually fail to prove any damages.
Diest TKO
 
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Reply Wed 3 Dec, 2008 04:53 pm
@Woiyo9,
What you just said is that polyamorous people can show up to a hospital and make medical decisions for each other? You have quite an imagination.

Your ineptitude is off the scale.

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Woiyo9
 
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Reply Thu 4 Dec, 2008 06:57 am
@Diest TKO,
Have you ever heard of a Health Care Proxy or Durable Power of Attorney?

No. I guess you have not heard of them.

Go away. You people are annoying.
Diest TKO
 
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Reply Thu 4 Dec, 2008 07:05 pm
@Woiyo9,
Woiyo9 wrote:

Have you ever heard of a Health Care Proxy or Durable Power of Attorney?

Yes I have, and it's obviously not applicable to the example I gave. How could you resolve multiple people claiming the last word on something like that? One person would ultimately have to be the final word.
Woiyo9 wrote:

Go away. You people are annoying.

Trying to train you to use logic is like training a fish to swim as use it's gills to breathe. It's for your own damn good, but for whatever reason, you resist.

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Copper Seth
 
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Reply Thu 4 Dec, 2008 07:56 pm
@Debra Law,
The argument that the connection between Polygamy and Gay marriage isn't far off, isn't invalid. It's a conclusion based on common sense, reason and the laws of nature.

Neither gay marriage nor polygamy are natural or healthy forms of marriage. Both of them are not what God or nature intended.

Those arguments about where you draw the line if you allow polygamy, are not mine. Those were the opinions of the supreme court in the reynolds vs US case. Those are their words, and you are ignoring the law of the land.

The government is not discriminating against gays because they do not prevent them from marrying. They can marry whoever they want, as long as it is someone from the opposite sex. Hell, they can find a crazy church that will marry them, but the government will not recognize the marriage. If that gay couple has legal issues, then they can create a will to remedy all the petty nuances that you use to justify gay marriage.

Heterosexual marriage, or as I call it marriage, is more beneficial to a child with one parent, or two parents of the same sex. If you have two fathers, who breast feeds? Breat feeding is healthier for the baby. There are so many proven psychological and physical ramifications that suggest a child is best nurtured with a paternal and maternal influence. Not my word. Study after study shows that. And we shouldn't punish a child or handicap them by forcing them to be raised in an unatural family setting.

It's typical of your side to ignore the concerns of the child. Abortion ring a bell? Your side just does whatever it feels like, which is why I love the quote, "to permit it would be to make professed doctrines of religous beliefs superior to the law of the land, and in effect to permit every citizen to become a law unto himself." - 1878 court opinion in the case Reynolds vs. US

You are exploiting the 14th amendment and you agree with it when you feel like it, then ignore it when it hurts you. You shouldn't pick and choose when you feel like applying the constitution.

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You are trying to say that homosexuals struggle in relationships and as a community struggle with disease, and somehow that is a legitimate argument against allowing gays to marry. That's not a point. That's spin. Nothing more.


You miss the point to what I was saying. If the homosexual population accounts for nearly 70% of HIV cases, that lifestyle leads to death. It's not spin, it's a fact in research conducted by the Center for Disease Control. Homosexuals are not just struggling with some random disease. They are struggling with a life threatening disease. So, it is a legitimate argument because it speaks to the value of life. The Loving v. Virginia case said that interracial marriage should be allowed because marriage was a fundamental right to our survival. How can a group of people that leads a lifestyle leading to death serve the same function in our society? There was a reason marriage was deemed fundamental...for the survial of our species. Homosexuality does NOT lead to survival of our species, it leads to death. Threefore, your case about same sex marriage being a fundamental right fails the test.

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...People in committed monogamous relationships are less likely to be exposed to sexual diseases"

The study I quoted proves you incorrect. In countries that have allowed for same sex marriage, the partners are having sex with multiple partners, how does that REDUCE exposure to life threatening diseases? I would argue that the more people you are having sex with, hetero or homosexual, the more likely you are to find yourself with a sexually transmitted disease.

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"Banning homosexual marriages because some study indicates that some of those marriages might not be as "enduring" as some heterosexual marriages is not necessary to serve any state interest."

I'm glad that we can agree that homosexual marriages might not be as enduring as heterosexual marriages.

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"If the State has a compelling interest in ensuring that marriage is a "life long commitment," then the State could ban divorces. But so long as married heterosexual couples are allowed to divorce, married homosexual couples must be allowed to divorce too."

On this point we can also agree. I believe that whoever came up with the phrase "irreconcilable differences" needs to be removed from society. After all, I believe this phrase has made divorce far too easy. Tougher divorce requirements would stregnthen marriages.

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"You are an oppressor, not me. I have never voted to deny the fundamental right to marry to anyone."

Neither have I. I have voted to keep the definition of marriage what it always has been. Marriage rights are still available through civil unions. The fact that you can't accept a different label for something that is different does NOT prove that I have denied marriage rights to anyone. In a previous post to another individual on this board, you have stated that you are against polygamy, bisexual marriages, and incestual marriages. So, you are just as much of an oppressor and I am because you believe that polygamy, bisexual and incestual marriages are wrong. The only difference between us is how we view same sex marriage. Your logic fails you here. You say that we should be allowed to marry WHOMEVER we want to marry. But, using that logic, you would have to conclude that a bisexual person should be able to marry persons of both sexes because they desire to do so. You would also have to conclude that, because a bisexual person could have two marriage partners, a polygamist would also have the rights to marry more than one person if he or she should want to do so. Furthermore, you would have to allow interfamily marriages because your definition for whom should be allowed to marry revolved on how someone feels about another person. So, if a mom fell in love with her son, she should be allowed to marry him because to deny a person the opportunity to marry the person they love would be wrong. For you to deny any of those three types of relationships the opportunity to marry would completely contradict your rationale for why same sex couples should be allowed to marry. I would further argue that the reason same sex couples should not be allowed to call their unions marriage is to eliminate the possibility for bisexual, polygamists, and incestual partners to use the same argument to call their unions marriage, which you, yourself, have said would be a bad thing.

The thing that you fail to understand is that when two things are different, they have different labels. You are a woman and I am a man. We are both human beings, yet these two labels are still used. You are a woman now and were once called a girl. You had all the same physiological parts of a woman, but were called a girl. This label still sticks. So, if these labels can stick, why does it not make sence to call a homosexual union of two people something different from a union of two heterosexual people. Why do they have to be called the same thing? Can you not agree that man w/ man is different than man w/ woman? or that woman w/ woman is different than woman w/ man? Maybe the best way to illustrate is like this...
man with man.........................man with woman
woman with woman.................woman with man
It is as plain as day that we have three disticntly different unions. Why should they have the same title to their unions? You have yet to answer this question with anything other than uttering the same phrase "separate is not equal." However, are men and women not seen as equals in the eyes of the law? They have different titles and are still seen as equals in the eyes of the law. The same could be true of civil unions and heterosexual marriages. So, fight for the civil unions to be recognized in more states rather than redefining marriage in a state that already grants you the same rights as a married couple. There are 7 states that give a homosexual couple all or virtually all the same rights to a married couple through a civil union/domestic partnership and 5 more states that recognize civil unions with less rights. Contrasting that with the fact that there are only 2 states that recognize gay marriage a legal, it should be obvious that your fight would be much better served by pushing for civil unions to be what they are in California elsewhere. It's a more logical battle. The truth is that, even if California allows gay unions to be called marriage, it won't be a federally protected marriage. If you move to one of the other 47 states that have gay marriage bans and your marriage will be null and void. Same as having a civil union here and moving to another state to have it voided. Only with a civil union, you have more states you can move to where it will be considered valid.

Marriage has never in history been between two consenting humans of any sex. It has ALWAYS, for ever, been between two people; a man and a woman. So we have been discriminating against gays since the creation of marriage? Which by the way was a religious rite.

It's not emotional garbage to compare homosexuality to beastiality or pedophilia. (i feel they are all psychological or genetic mutations) That is just how I feel a court should approach such matters. Why ignore one but accept another? What is the justification for the line you abitrarily draw if we aren't allowed to use morality, religion or natural law?

You can't just say it is equal or unequal because you said so or it should be allowed because you don't agree with the objections.

This isn't about ineqality. It's about drawing a line, and retaining some moral fiber in a country that is quickly losing its traditional values which is a gateway to a host of other societal problems.

This isn't a first amendment issue. After Jefferson mentioned a wall of separation between church and state, he said the legitimate powers of government reach actions only, and not opinions. Gay marriage is an action that the government has every right to be involved in. Not to mention, prop 8 was voted on by the citizens, not the government.

The 14th amendment and loving vs. virginia doesn't apply either. Nobody is saying that gays can't marry. They just can't marry someone from the same sex. And the Loving vs. Virginia case dealt with interracial marriage, and that doesn't apply to gay marriage which is redefining what is a man and a woman. Why don't you look up Reynolds vs. US; the polygamy case where the court said that polygamy is a slippery slope, which if allowed will allow other abominable acts.

The supreme court believes that by virtue of the first amendment, government can not legislate against opinion, but CAN legislate against action. After all where do you draw the line? Incest marriage? religious sacrifice? animal marriage? Who defines that scope?

You said that marriage should be between two consenting humans, and so a brother and a sister that love each other and are over 18 are two consenting humans. So under what grounds do you deny that marriage but allow gay marriage?
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Maybe you can tell me what they are putting in the water supply and the air supply to make these rainbows so close to the earth Copper Seth.

Your anti-intellectual rants employ no logic.

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