hawkeye10 wrote:stealing from someone else whom I generally agree with:
Quote:Paedophilia (in America pedophilia) is a sexual orientation, a predilection, a pattern of thought. It is not a behaviour, thoughts cannot, in a decent free society, be crimes. Therefore paedophilia cannot be considered a crime.
The media all too often these days use the word paedophilia to mean serial rape and murder of children. This is an abuse of language that seems designed specifically to render understanding impossible. A man who has sexually abused children on two occasions is described as a dangerous man, who might graduate to become a paedophile. That is ridiculous. If you mean child killer use the words. They are quite simple and clear. Paedophile means lover of children like anglophile means lover of things English. It does not mean child killer.
There are people who are not sexually attracted to adults of either sex but are sexually attracted to children. These people are paedophiles. This is what paedophilia is, the sexual attraction towards children. Just as many Christian churches draw a distinction between people with homosexual tendencies and those who indulge in homosexual activity we should be quite clear that there is a fundamental difference between being sexually attracted by thoughts of children and chopping up children and burying the bodies. The criminal law does not punish people for wanting to have more money, but it does have sanctions against people who act on that desire in ways which infringe the rights of others. The same is true of paedophilia. Being sexually attracted to children is not a crime, it can't be, thoughts alone cannot be criminal...
http://www.mwillett.org/mind/paedophilia.htm
Many at a2k should take heed to the conclusion
Quote:...Paedophilia is not a crime but it does present problems. As a society we should have the strength to accept that some people simply do have urges we (and probably they) would rather they didn't have. But simply getting very annoyed, unreasonable and violent isn't going to help anybody. Being violently bigoted didn't stop people having homosexual urges either. No problem is ever solved by a refusal to understand it as if that alone would make it go away.
It is not necessary to disagree with what you have posted to disagree with you.
I have no ill-will at all towards people attracted to children. In fact, having worked with paedophiles, I also bear them, themselves, no ill-will....., I have considerable sympathy for their plight (though I find this much harder to find with ones who use intelligence and access to power to attempt to make others see their actions as anything but abuse) however I will do anything within my power to make it impossible for them to abuse children.
However, as people have repeatedly explained to you, you are not discussing people who are attracted to children, you are supporting the right of such people to have access to photographs of criminal assault upon children to enjoy.
In doing so you are supporting access to material which raises the risk of some of these people going on to actually physically abuse children directly, instead of having the physical abuse done for them.
You are also supporting the widening of the circle of those who witness a child's trauma, thus participating in the ongoing emotional traumatising of children who become aware of how the crime scene photographs of their abuse are being used.
You are also, as has been repeatedly pointed out to you, supporting the abuse of actual children by supporting the ever-widening market for this abuse, and supporting measures which would make it far harder to prosecute those abusing kids to meet this market.
While some here are reacting viscerally and, in my view, unhelpfully (including me on one occasion in this thread) the arguments against your support for abuse are quite clear and reasoned. Don't try to hide behind the "you're all just being emotional and unevolved" smokescreen.
It won't work.
By the way...Set just highlighted soomething I hadn't noticed.
A man who has sexually abused a child on two occasions IS a dangerous criminal. He may not go on to murder etc, but he has committed two serious crimes, and is a high risk for goiing on to perform more.
I had thought your source fairly reasoned, but that sentence is utter nonsense.