Quote:i'm all for ALL PEOPLE making FREE decisions for themselves !
but i believe that many of the women on the ranch had been deprived of making THEIR OWN free decisions by their leaders and so-called "husbands
The FLDS women submit to their husbands, they know that they submit, they say to anyone who ask that they submit because they want to. Texas says that teaching kids that submission is the best way to live is abuse, they also I think believe that women who believe in submission are not fit mothers. The women have not been deprived of making their own free decisions, they have voluntarily proxied their decision making to their husbands. In BDSM this is called "power exchange". If the state is allowed to outlaw the right to take part in power exchange relationship we are in for a mess of trouble, because many people do it and most of them will not ever stop doing it. I also add that if that is America's position then it might be time to outlaw Christianity, because until the bible is repealed Christians believe that women should submit to men, and men are to take care of their wives.
Quote:the women and children certainly are HUMAN BEINGS , but were often NOT treated as human beings by their leaders and husbands
The women think that they are treated as human beings, who the hell are you to dismiss their experience? I hope I can decide for you like you insist on deciding for them.
Quote:perhaps they did act excessively . however , i wonder what the public reaction would have been if the CPS would have dragged their feet and ignored the abuse ?
i remember how long it took for members of the catholic church to come forward and report the abuse - many were grown men and women before they had enough courage . even then , the catholic authorities played a game of DENY ,DENY , DENY !
(remember how the priests were shuffled around to make identifucation more difficult ?)
Nobody wants CPS to ignore what they consider abuse, we want CPS to follow the law and to understand that they as individuals don't get to decide. We are a democracy, the people decide and we have processes to work these questions out.