ebrown wrote :
Quote:Even if you believe that this religious community has no right to exist (or has no right to raise children)... you must agree that there is a better way for the state to handle this.
my reply was a little hasty , and i'll modify it :
Quote:i don't care how many grown men and women want to live together in whatever way they like , but when they involve underaged kids my sympathy stops !
i have no objection if they want to have children and are willing to let these children to be kids - however : NO underage marriage or sex with "old" men should be tolerated
i do NOT know all the details of the "living" arrangements of the texas sect . i have however listened to blackmore and his views on more than one occasion (if i recall correctly , the groups were connected at one time but split over "leadership" issues - that's what i recall) .
i don't see any serious problem with "multi-marriages or living arrangements" between consenting adults and having children in those arrangements (there are probably plenty of them) , but when it involves forcing girls into teenage marriage - which certainly blackmore advocates - , i don't have any sympathy .
IF (and i do not personally know enough about the texas situation) there was sex between "older" men and teenage girls (and with the knowledge of the mothers) , i don't see how at least a temporary separation of the children from their families can be avoided .
perhaps it'll turn out out to be completely above board - but right now my judgement is influenced by having listened to blackmore .
btw. during WW II millions of children in europe were separarted from their parents for long periods of time to keep them out of danger from air-raids (i was one of those kids and pretty well all my classs-mates were too) . we all seem to have come through it quite well .
of course , a lot will depend on how the parents influence their children .
if they scare the heck out of them , telling the kids that those other people are going to kill or harm them , it might be somewhat difficult to convince the kids that they will not be harmed .
i am still wondering where the men are ? if they are good fathers and husbands , do they not have a responsibility to stay with their families , or at least support them in some way ?
i'm probably basing too much of my judgement on having heard blackmore speak .
perhaps things will turn out just fine .
hbg