Howdy everyone, its me.
I read what Stacy wrote yesterday, and your responses.
I thank you for taking the time to respond to her.
She is still in alot of pain, but she is starting to become herself again.
Of course, it will take a long time for her to get back to some sense of normal.
We got hit again yesterday, but not so close to home this time.
A friend of mine on the FD had his dad pass away this weekend and he is being buried today, and we found out last night that a man Stacy used to work with died yesterday morning.
We went back to the funeral home last night to visit my friend and lend him support, but he knew how devastated Stacy and I are from Kaines death so he hwasnt upset we only stayed a few moments.
Today Stacy is demanding that the house gets cleaned from top to bottom, even though it really isnt dirty.
Yes, its cluttered, but not dirty.
I think its her way of trying to keep her mind off of Kaine, so I am not going to argue with her about it.
Last night, she finally slept.
We went to bed shortly after she wrote to all of you and she slept for almost 12 hours.
Its the first real sleep she has gotten since Kaine died.
I was not about to wake her up this morning, I let her sleep all she wanted.
Now, I need to figure out a way to get her to eat something.
Anyway, if anyone is interested, here is Kaines obituary from the paper...
http://www.ucadvocate.com/articles/stories/public/200812/31/04Fb_obituari.html
It has Stacy listed as "special caretaker" and I am not thrilled with that.
It makes it sound like Kaine was handicapped somehow.
Stacy raised him and he lived with her and I for about 8 years.
She doesnt mind, but I do.
Anyway, thanks for being here and putting up with my babbling, and hers.
I will talk to you all later.