Jamielynn--
You seem to be an up-front, take-charge woman with no direct responsibility for what your fiance did nor not do in the past.
Quote:Besides all the moral issues with my question, I just wanted to know if anybody knew the legal part of it. Does one have to have a dna test before siging rights over in mississippi??? thats all, i want to know.
I know in some states if the father of record cannot be located, an adoption can move forward. Whether this is true of all states, I don't know.
Is the mother of this child an ex-girlfriend or an ex-wife? Is your fiance's name on the child's birth certificate (which makes him the father of record of the child)?
As far as child support goes, you can't get blood from a stone, but if your fiance receives any money for being disabled part of this check can be attached for the purposes of child support.
Obviously you want to know all the ramifications of your financial situation before you get married and have more children to support.
I am not a lawyer, but I am fairly certain that a DNA test is not required to relinquish parental rights. What is required is that the State of Texas is sure that someone has officially taken over responsibility to support the child.
Find out whether or not that adoption is official. If so, your fiance is off the hook for child support.
Has your husband seen a doctor and been officially diagnosed with disabling panic attacts and agoraphobia? Are you going to be the breadwinner for the family?
In the title to your question you seem to have doubts about whether your fiance is telling you the truth. Does he often tell fibs--or even lies--to escape the responsibility for his actions?