@joefromchicago,
I thought I had addressed the points you raised.
I think we disagree on too many premises to find much common ground.
This started when I said choice is a mechanism in deciding what is real. Perhaps it is better explained in terms of probable outcomes of an event.
Basically we can say that when we observe an object we make quantum measurements. It is not a passive process of absorbing information but an active one of quantifying sensory input. Out of all probable observations the one you actually end up making is the choice, which is committed to memory to form a sense of coherency.
Each time an observation is repeated new measurements are made, but they are seen in contrast to what is committed to memory. But memory itself is also quantum measurement.
Ironically, this approach to reality sort of puts the meaning back into the objects. Everytime you experience something relating to a particular object, be it thinking of the car you are going to buy or actually driving it, you are actually interacting with it. There is no concept, just the continuous measurement from which we form our illusory concepts.
So there is no distinction between an object and it's concept. When I'm out driving and I'm hungry and looking forward to a hot dog, what appears to me as thoughts of a random hot dog I am going to buy in the near future is actually quantum measurements of the actual hot dog I will eat beginning the moment I make the choice to get one.