Christianity is not 'supposedly a religion of acceptance' It is Christianity. It is a religion that loves a God and obeys his wishes, it has rules and guidelines like all other religions, these are fundamental.
One of the biggest miss-conceptions of Christianity is that it is all about being fair and loving and accepting and nothing else. It is not. It is all about God and Jesus.
The whole concept of a gay Christian is just wrong. You cannot believe in and worship a God, and at the same time disagree with him. If you accept God then you accept that he is right. Its not like you can say "okay God I like the idea of knowing you, but there are a few things that I just wont do"
I try hard not to be closed minded about anything. I have only just become a Christian myself, I used to be quite the opposite, and have many gay friends so I can see both points of view. I just fail to see how people can take a religion and mould it to their own ideals. Christianity is Christianity, There is some stuff that is okay, and some stuff that is not. Simple.
Re the Veggie thing, that's a whole other issue! Story was amusing though, thanks