@springdale9999,
I would say dys doesn't care anymore, and you, since this happened in 2007, shouldn't either.
Can we move on? This is quite offensive to speak of a dear man who is now sorely missed my many, as having to regret some small comment from 4 years ago.
In that time you have matured 4 years, and have learned not dwell on this.
Please, I respectfully ask you to stop.