Tue 6 Apr, 2010 06:43 pm - I have been seeing a widower who lost his wife 9 months ago. We are taking things VERY SLOWLY, and that would be my advice to you also. It doesn't matter if someone has been widowed 6 months... (view)
Tue 6 Apr, 2010 06:38 pm - I agree that not having sex before marriage is a great idea in theory, in the real world it just doesn't always happen that way. I don't think that it's necessary to have sex with... (view)
Tue 6 Apr, 2010 06:35 pm - Thank you all for you help and advise. I tend to agree with you that 2 years may just be the right time frame. Like I said in my original post, we live 3 hours apart, and I think that has worked... (view)
Mon 5 Apr, 2010 02:56 pm - Sozobe,
I think that asking him what he meant is the only logical thing to do. And yes, I'm comfortable keeping things casual until he's ready to move on. I truly want what is best for... (view)
Mon 5 Apr, 2010 02:55 pm - engineer,
Thank you for your answer...it makes perfect sense. "Lead me down the wrong path" could mean any number of things, but I agree with you...he's definately NOT where I am... (view)
Mon 5 Apr, 2010 02:02 pm - I have 2 friends that are currently in the grieving process; one lost his wife, the other lost one of her daughters. The one thing that I can tell you for certain about grief is that it sometimes... (view)
Mon 5 Apr, 2010 01:45 pm - I hope that someone will read this and be able to help me. I've been seeing a widower (lost his wife early last summer) and things have been going great. We see each other about every 3... (view)
Mon 5 Apr, 2010 01:33 pm - I have been seeing a man that has been a widower since early last summer. Things have gone great so far; we are great friends, have a lot of things in common, and always have a good time together.... (view)
Thu 18 Feb, 2010 12:32 pm - Thank you so much for replying! I think that you are exactly right. I want him to be able to recover from this, and it will have to be at his pace.
Thanks again. (view)
