Wed 11 Aug, 2004 04:13 pm - Ed, I empathize. My relationship is in a similar situation, and I've fought with what I should do, but there really is only one answer: You can't change people, so do what's best for... (view)
Thu 5 Aug, 2004 04:50 pm - So, Quietman just has to ask: what's the attraction?
I mean, if this guy sits in the shadows and acts cold, he probably doesn't want to get people to know him.
Not sure what the... (view)
Thu 29 Jul, 2004 09:33 am - Nathor, I empathize my friend, though face-to-face brings it to a different level. I felt as though I was reading her diary; felt bad for doing it, but curiosity won out. I think I'd rather... (view)
Wed 28 Jul, 2004 07:13 pm - I have high hopes it will be helpful; obviously, otherwise I wouldn't agree to it.
A few things in the questionnaire (I stopped reading almost immediately, it was a little much for me):... (view)
Tue 27 Jul, 2004 11:40 am - I've never heard good things about this. Most of the people I know that have done this have ended their relationship, but we've reached a point where it just had to happen.
We went to... (view)
Wed 21 Jul, 2004 03:35 pm - Well, there are a few other situations in which I receive similar response, but her stance on this is the...'strongest' I guess you'd say. That's why while the act itself... (view)
Wed 21 Jul, 2004 10:56 am - CI: It's not that I'm not open to other cultures, it's just not for me. My years of living and learning and experiencing many things doesn't limit my acceptance of different... (view)
Wed 21 Jul, 2004 10:25 am - Yep, true: there are cultures in the world where this is totally acceptable. Problem is, I wasn't born and raised in one, and we don't live in one. Doesn't make another wrong and... (view)
Tue 20 Jul, 2004 05:29 pm - All very good points and comments, thank you.
I realize that this is a choice. It is strange, though. Like Briarwizard's wife, she sometimes really cares, and sometimes not. It's not... (view)
