trixabell, I'm in full agreement; we change a little bit each day without realizing what that change is. But, lo and behold, 2 - 3 decades later, we find another 'me.' Same body, but with different ideas about what life is all about. At some point in our life, when we said to ourselves, I need to change the coarse of my life, because things aren't working out for me. That may be a life changing event, but what we do after that is what matters. Did we follow through, or did we give up? If we stuck with our plans, how did it turn out?