Swimpy wrote:We were guests in your country and I tried my best to be polite.
I'm not surprised at all, and I'm also not surprised (if a teeny bit relieved) that the Germans reciprocated. I think Jane has a good point about the busloads of American tourists in Germany. It's the same the other way round. Sometimes when I'm in America, I see the equivalent German busload. Whenever it appears near the horizon, I try extra hard to hide my German accent so Americans don't notice I'm one of them. And Murphy knows that I, although a non-bus kind of tourist, have committed own my share of gaffes in America.
Talking of helpfulness to strangers, I will never forget my very first day in Chicago. After arriving at my hotel, I needed to exchange several rounds of emails with a friend. My hotel had no internet connection. So every two hours or so, I would walk back and forth between my hotel and a Kinko's about five blocks away. On my third round, a man walked up to me. He wore threadbare clothes and had gaps between his teeth. I thought: "U-oh, he's going to ask me for money. I only hope he'll merely ask me to volunteer it." Seconds later, he stood in front of me and said: "Excuse me sir, but I noticed you walking up and down Rush Street several times. I wonder if you might be lost. Can I help you somehow?" I don't usually blush, but that was one of the rare exceptions. This turn of events came totally unexpected to me -- I'm pretty sure a German passer-by wouldn't behave this way.
On the other hand, maybe it's just that the
really nice Germans have emigrated to America's Midwest, and that this Chicagoer was one of them.