squinney wrote:Does a child that is whipped and punished harshly for a minor crime love his father? Does a child that fears his father love him? I don't think so. My Dad had a horrible temper when we were growing up. (He's softened with age). We all ran to our rooms and looked busy when we heard him pull into the driveway.
If your father whipped you before he left for work and said "I'm going to work. I know it's a teacher work day and you'll be home and tempted to steal a cookie from the cookie jar so I'm spanking you now for that crime," aren't you going to go ahead and take the cookie after he leaves since you've already been punished?
But there's a difference. God is both strict in punishment and at the same time merciful. And God sees and knows what you do at all times. Why wouldn't you fear Him when he holds your life in His hands, with a simple command He can take your breath away?
Fearing God makes you humble and gives you morals in your everyday life, those who fear Allah would never steal, scam, insult, sue, etc. That's what fear in Allah instills. If people did not fear God's punishments what would stop them from murder, fornication, drinking, etc. (ie. America)? I fear Allah's wrath, but at the same time I love Him for His mercy and blessings.
For example-
Allah's Apostle said, "Whoever says, 'Subhan Allah wa bihamdihi,' one hundred times a day, will be forgiven all his sins even if they were as much as the foam of the sea.
Just by saying these simple 3 words 100 times a day, all your past sins will be forgiven.
Or an even easier method-
The Prophet said, "Say Amin" when the Imam says it and if the Amin of any one of you coincides with that of the angels then all his past sins will be forgiven."
Of course this only takes place in After-dark, Sunset, and Dawn prayers.
Even better-
Allah's Apostle said, "If any one of you improve (follows strictly) his Islamic religion then his
good deeds will be rewarded ten times to seven hundred times for each good deed and a bad deed will be recorded as it is."
Who can you turn to when modern medicine has no cure for you? Who can you turn to when you're unemployed and are barely able to stay alive? Who can you turn to when no human is willing to help you? Turn to Allah, your Creator, to ease you out of your calamities.