people wear all kinds of different 'customes' for all kinds of reasons .
just sit back for a moment and visualize what some people wear that appear on TV shows and interview shows - not everyone would agree that it is always appropriate , but we seem to be able to 'tolerate' it - some more , some less .
so why not let women - and men too , for all i care - wear a veil , if that's what they seem to want or if that is the custom .
i think i pointed out some time ago that sikhs joining the 'royal canadian monted police' are permitted to wear their distinctive head-dress . while there was some displeasure shown by some citizens - 'it's not the canadian way' - , some army veterans pointed out that sikhs were good enough to fight in the war wearing their head-dress , why should they now not be allowed to wear it serving as constables . btw the fuss and furour it caused is hardly remembered anymore .
as far as being 'forced' to wear the veil , what about the little girls being 'forced' by their parents to dress up like little lolitas so that they can compete in 'fashion shows' ? of course , the parents have a ready answer : " little debbie absolutely loves dressing up "
how about boys as young as five years being forced to dress in a hockey outfit and being put on the ice to slug it out with the other kids ("it'll make a man out of him" - yea , for sure) . CBC-TV actually made a documentary where they went into the kids dressing room after the game - there were a lot of unhappy little kids , but did the parents or juvenile hockey groups want to hear about it ? of course not !
if how we dress and what we wear , is what we worry about ; well , there are a lot more important things to be concerned about imo .
here is a little anectode based upon personal experience re . dresscode :
in the early 1960's my boss told me that i was invited to attend the company annual meeting . this was a rather small affair with no more than about 100 "men" attending in our small city (you are right , i said "men" - meaning men only
) .
it was always followed by a reception where the personnel assistant (today called : manager) was present wearing a new hat and serving 'savouries' - yes , mary , the personnel assistant was allowe to circulate amongst the men and serve them tasty snacks (she actually took her duty very seriously and made sure that the young fellows would not get too much liquor into their delicate systems :wink: .
anyway , when my boss extented the invitation , he stressed that i must wear a suit , white shirt and tie !
i was a bit indignant - of course i didn't say anything
- because i thought he must know that i would dress 'properly' without being asked .
was i ever surprised when i went to the meeting : the chairman and several other boardmembers were wearing 'checkered' shirts
!
as my boss explained to me : they are the bosses , they can wear whatever they want ! end of discussion !
i say : get real !
if that's all you have to worry about ... (you can fill in the rest).
from someone 'who had to be told how to dress' .
hbg