Love

"When two people are making love, and they climax together, for that moment at least, they are purely in love"
~~~Booman

Just have to babble...
There is an old saying that you cannot love anyone else unless you truly love yourself. At the same time I would like to dispute this quote and offer my own imperfect human intererpertation on why I disagree.

There were a couple women I had feeling's, actually very strong feelings for them at the time that I happenened to meet them in my life. Though at the same point and also on the same note it was out of my own non-love for myself that in turn I was able to evaluate the woman itself. Especially out of my own non-love was able to realize that I did not want to put them through anything that may bring them down. I personally believe that any REAL man should not attempt to go after any woman. If they could not provide them with the security that they deserve. I do not only mean money. Also real love and trust. Someone that the in it's out it is over does not matter with. You could lay with them and just be able to look into their eyes to see the real smile. Not the one given only by facial mumuscles but also the one that you can hear in complete silence. Within your own heart.

I have alot of demons some put upon me some my own actions though I only slept with 2 women in my whole life. WHY????
Because I do not judge or wish to add anyone especially someone who I view as a beautiful woman as baggage. To carry around and simply wear!!! (OR TO LEAVE CARYYING MY BAGGAGE)

'The best and most beautiful things in this world cannot be seen or even heard, but must be felt with the heart.'

~ Helen Keller

'If you take a flower in your hand and really look at it, it's your world for the moment.'

~ Georgia O'Keefe

Melowgemini,
...I'm afraid all that of which you speak, is way too logical to be about love.

I agree, Booman. Hence, my previous posts.

Right rae,
...I should have acknowledged you, but when I saw that analytical description of his "love strategy", I just impulsively leaped in.

I don't ever wanna be that confused about love again!

I always thought men were the confused ones.

Love is like the wild rose-briar;
Friendship like the holly-tree.
The holly is dark when the rose-briar blooms,
But which will bloom most constantly?

~ Emily Bronte

Maybe I'm breaking rank by admitting it.....but women are just as confused by love.

Great poem, chatoyant! Love it, love it, love it!

Thank you Rae, and I agree with that confusing comment you made.

Shhhhhhhhhhhhhhh! :wink:

Yeah right.

This is just like when you women let us think we run things...I'm not going for it.

I have failed the code of womanhood. I am so ashamed.

There, there, Rae....It's like someone revealing themself to be Jesus, who would believe me if I repeated it. :wink:

My turn to say 'yeah right', Booman.

(Thanks for trying though.....)