Ok, here is my lobster stew recipe...
"In Maine" a chowder has potatoes, that seems to be the distinguishing feature between lobster chowder and lobster stew...
Lobster stew has only lobster.
First you need some drawn unsalted butter.
If you don't know what drawn butter is well you take real unsalted butter and microwave it briefly on low in a pyrex measuring cup until it just becomes a liquid let it sit at room temperature until all of the cream settles to the bottom. Then skim the oil off the top leaving the cream at the bottom. It is the oil that you use in this recipe, the oil is the drawn butter.
You put some of the drawn butter in a frying skillet. The size of the skillet is dependant on how much stew you plan to make. A very small skillet can make one single bowl of stew very nicely.
The amount of drawn butter depends on how many serving you are going to make.
One serving should have 3 to 4 tablespoons of drawn butter. The reason why you use unsalted butter is because salt breaks down oil and makes it smoke before the lobster has released it's color.
You toss some lobster in the drawn butter and fry it until the red comes out of the lobster. If you leave any cream in the oil it will burn and turn black before the oil turns red.
Once the oil is red then you add a spritz of sherry to the hot oil and lobster for flavor. CAREFUL, the oil will flame up as the alcohol burns off. Keep your face and hands away when you add the sherry.
Once the oil flames up with a plume of fire then you add a bit of milk, cream and canned milk (not too much canned milk).
Heat it up till the dairy mixture turns white, NEVER boil the stew.
Then serve...
Just increase the ingredients to make more servings.
You just need to get the red out of the lobster but don't over fry the lobster or it can become tough. It will turn the drawn butter bright red before it makes the lobster tough...
Enjoy.
Salt and pepper at the dinner table and oyster crackers or saltines are a nice touch...