Setanta wrote:No Snood, i don't have children--if i did, at my age, i'd have grandchildren, as well.
I want to be real clear here - Set, I don't either. I raised two stepchildren from first grade through junior year in high school.
Quote:Now you can comfort yourself that you're entitled to dismiss my arguments.
That's harsh, Set. I have a painstakingly reached, grudging, yet sincere respect for your opinions. I just don't think it's irrelevant whether someone has kids or not, when referring to trying to raise kids.
Quote:I have, however, had a big hand in caring for my nephews when they were small, and lived in a stair-step family, in which one was always responsible for siblings and cousins who were younger. Additionally, believe it or not, i remember my own upbringing.
So I'm sure you understand some of the difficulties in trying to convey some kind of morality to children.
Quote:I know, whether or not you want to get snotty about it,
Now, what have I said in this conversation up to this point, that would cause you to go there?
Quote: that it is possible to teach children about ethics and social responsibility without an appeal to religious morality
A couple of things. "Religious morality" is a loaded as hell term, and not really necessary to use here. Does the argument over whether or not there is universal good and evil automatically presuppose having an argument over whether or not religion is meaningful? I don't think so.
I think some things are clearly and universally recognizable as evil. The reason I asked about having raised kids is because they pick up on everything - and mostly not what we say, but what we do. So our own "moral code" is passed on, and I don't know how I would do that consciously or even unconsciously without having some bedrock understanding of what is simply right and what is simply wrong. I hope that makes some sense.
Oh, and by the way - Mesquite? Bite me.