I'm a Nervous Nellie and Party Pooper. When I read:
Quote:I am thinking about having a surprise party for my boyfriend. I was thinking we will go to dinner around 7ish, then when we returned, everyone would be at the house for the big surprise (I'd have someone organize everyone while I was gone). Because the party will be so late, and we will have just eaten dinner, I thought serving cocktails and desserts would be appropriate. What drinks and desserts should I serve? Is this too 'wintery' for early May??
I thought, "Scheduling nightmare."
Suppose the Birthday Boy wants to linger over dinner or do something silly or romantic or colorful after dinner?
Meanwhile, you are dragging him willy-nilly to a SURPRISE.
Unless you can clone yourself to be both a Best Beloved and a Hostess in two separate places, think again.