I'm with you on that neo. All of what you said. What was acceptable in a rated "R" movie when I was younger is now what is acceptable in a PG13 movie. As far as video games go I'm not too certain having not played too many myself. Though I do like the occasional bout of playing need for speed. Whoooo...
I can say this though. At my last job I worked with troubled teenage boys. Shortly before I left that job there was an outburst of kids sneaking adult video games on the campus when they would come home from home visit. By the time staff caught up with it almost all of eight cottages on the campus had at least one copy of grand theft auto floating around. The interesting thing about this story is that a couple of the boys snuck out one night, went up to the mechanics shop, hopped in a car, and decided to take it for a spin around the campus.
The mechanics left the keys in the cars because no one had ever thought of doing this before and the place has been open since the 1950's.
The boys took the car to one of the other cottages and knocked on a window to try and get some other boys to join them in their joy ride. One of the boys ran outside in his bare feet, stepped on a piece of broken glass, and cut his foot so bad they thought it would have to be amputated. It was shortly after this incident that staff began discovering all the grand theft auto games that had been slipped onto the campus...
Go figure...
I don't think things necessarily
have to influence us, but I think they can without us being aware that they are.