Quote:Other Realitve said "We were all talking about how maybe this happened to give our family a chance to reconnect all of the broken bonds."
I agree that this visit is not in Mo's best interests.
He is a child. He is not responsible for any of these broken bonds and he should not be dragooned into participation in a game of Reunited Families.
Your problem is How To Say No Firmly and Tactfully.
Possible starting places:
Mo is a very exuberant child. His grandmother is seriously injured and surrounded by other severely injured people.
Emotionally exhausting visits should not take place in the hospital.
Far better that Mary devoted her time to Bio-Mom right now. After all, Mo is a stranger, but Bio-Mom has years of an unhappy past to deal with.
People have such dumb ideas.