J_B wrote:You can if you're in a liberal Christian faith, neo.
werthn, the more I read your questions the more I think you might be more comfortable with the Methodists or other liberal Christian denomination. No one group has absolute TRUTH, you should feel good about the faith tenets of the group you affiliate with. It sounds like you're getting hooked into a group you don't really relate to very well.
Yea, that's what I'm thinking too. Like I shared at another thread, I'm currently part of a Southern Baptist group and I have constantly arguing against the stuff they teach or asking questions. I think the religious leaders are really frustrated with me. And for the longest time, I thought there was something wrong with me. I thought that maybe I was growing farther away from God. And then someone told me that it's because I might be what they call a liberal Christian.
Now I know that there is a huge debate with this? Like some conservative Christians think that Liberal Christians aren't real Christians? Is this true?
Anyways, I still believe that yes, we cannot control what happens to us in the future. But no, that doesn't mean we rely everything on God. I'd rather God go help the really needy ones, people who really need help, like people in famines, victims of natural disasters, etc. And then one day, I can serve God by offering useful service to other people of need.