shortygurl wrote: ok Im sorry but I was there too and she is a slut for some girl to have a boyfriend and go to a party and let guys treat u like that is wrong the giys were even digusted after they were sober How is she judging her.
The same way you did by labeling her a slut. CL isn't a bad person. I just called her out on something I think is wrong. We can't continue to allow it if we (women) want to gain respect.
CL answered, made her opinion known and that's all we can do. I still think what she did by labeling this girl was wrong.
shortygurl wrote:
I could see if she walked into the house and was called a slut by what she was wearing but she did more than just wear revealing clothes she had sex with two guys and a bottle and thats a good way to live.
What is the difference? Were you in the room? Do you know what happened? Did you ask her if she was happy? Or enjoying herself? Nope. You made a decision based on limited facts (perhaps inaccurate second hand facts) and called her a "slut" because you disagree with her life syle.
Why isn't it a good way to live? If she used protection, is STD free and is happy, why are you so concerned with her way of life?
shortygurl wrote:
What she did made her a slut. Hasn't anyone ever heard of self respect and not to mention she never met any of the guys before and just had sex with them that is disgusting I mean any of them could have an std I Kno none of the guys don't but she doesnt kno that why would someone be that stupid she could've been walking into the house of a serial killer or rapist where is her commonsense. CL is not judging herHer actions proved to us what she is and she is a dirty slut. No woman should ever digrate themselves that way it just isn't right.
Respect for yourself also entails standing up for what you believe, disregarding the nasty and hurtful remarks other people make and remembering you are worth more. It's being the bigger person and not lowering yourself to name calling when everyone else is doing it. It's being confident in who you are, no matter what job you do or how much money you have and not being swayed by the expectations of society. It's being who you are with pride.
You don't know if that girl has respect for herself. You might think that behavior like that means she doesn't, but you might be wrong.
Women's liberation didn't give us the right to be tight lipped, conservative career women. It gave us the right to be whatever we wanted, be it CEO or stripper. It gave us options. It gave us the right to the sexual freedom men have enjoy for hundreds of years. And still, people like you, come along and tear down the progress we've made. You insist on being the savior of everyone, even if they don't need saving.
Sex with multiple partners might be "gross" to you. It might be wrong to you. And it might very well be dangerous if protection isn't used. But what it is
not is your business.
I think I just get nervous when it comes to any kind of debate or anything.... it is one of the I haven't matured in fully yet... I get too frusterated too fast and tend to jump to conclusions
