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Thu 1 Dec, 2005 10:43 am
Ok I am going to keep this as PG as possible... (another thread reminded me of this)
2 weeks ago I was at a party and my friends decided it would be funny to post the party details online to see if any females would show up...
So throughout the night nobody showed and we were just doing our normal card playing and drinking.... when the door opened and this girl walked in all by herself... she was wearing a sweatshirt and jeans and nobody knew who she was (and we are a close group of friends)....
SO she walks in sits on the couch.. yada yada make a long story short she takes off the sweatshirt and reveals a low cut shirt and really bad body odor... she sticks her cigarettes and lighter in her bra and starts talking to all the guys
Then she starts taking one of the guys pants off with her teeth and by the end of the night she was in the bedroom being passed around, if you get what I am saying...
THIS IS SOMETHING I NEVER EXPECTED TO SEE IN MY LIFE
Can anyone tell me why a girl my age would show up by herself at some random party and do that?
Just thought I get opinions or at least let you share my horror!
I suppose low self-esteem would be the standard, pat answer--and not one i'd likely object to.
Doesn't this give GUYS a bad name, too?
They didn't have to pass her around, that was your friends' decision -- at best bad (hope they at least used condoms), at worst criminal. (She was fully consensual?)
Horrible, indeed.
Has anyone yet bothered to attempt to determine whether she might have had a venereal disease?
Well they used condoms, yes and she was 20..
And she got passed around and only 2 of the guys ya know... and a soda bottle explored her also and pictures.. the works
And yes it gives a bad name for guys too
Phoenix32890 wrote:Quote:2 weeks ago I was at a party and my friends decided it would be funny to post the party details online to see if any females would show up...
That is, by far, one of the dumbest moves of which I have ever heard. Instead of a bad smelling nymphomanic, what if a really dangerous person showed up? Then again, as Setanta said, this gal might very well be medically dangerous. If I were the guys, I would have a checkup for STDs, pronto!
I agree and I am shocked with them all... but I can't make their choices for them...
You might consider finding a more congenial set of people to hang out with . . .
Phoenix32890 wrote:Quote:I agree and I am shocked with them all... but I can't make their choices for them...
Crazielady420 - Yes, but you CAN make sure that you never go to a party where someone has posted the details on the internet.
I know that I sound like a mother, but do you realize the risk that you all were taking (not even thinking about the sex) just letting some stranger into the house?
No, I understand where you are coming from completely... he posted it on one of those dating sites and only sent it to a few girls, but I know the risks it could take....
Not to mention the folks who now know where you or your friend lives.
Setanta wrote:You might consider finding a more congenial set of people to hang out with . . .
Actually I was wondering if I could start hanging out with her friends.
Bring on the sluts!
I'm sure that poor girl just didn't get enough hugs from daddy.
Where my friends live, not me... I don't give out too much info on the internet and I would never give my address to someone I didn't know... or my home number either cuz you can look up everything with that
Slappy Doo Hoo wrote:Setanta wrote:You might consider finding a more congenial set of people to hang out with . . .
Actually I was wondering if I could start hanging out with her friends.
Bring on the sluts!
I'm sure that poor girl just didn't get enough hugs from daddy.
Well she was def. a slut.... and she loved every minute of it and then started telling us about her boyfriend too.... If you want her I can send you her web page
Post it....gotta see what she looks like
Why do women insist on calling each other sluts?
You don't like her lifestyle, don't live it. Maybe she isn't happy but maybe she is.
Personally, I don't think you have any room to judge her. Not because you are in anyway a "slut" or a bad name for women but because you don't live in her shoes. And it's her life, not yours.
You might want to re-consider your friends if this behavior turns you off because the guys there weren't disgusted by her actions.
She is free to do what she wants, and if that makes her happy, then good for her! In my eyes she is a slut, because she fits the description of the word, at least the definition I was taught...
Good point, Bella. (Maybe she genuinely enjoyed herself. Who knows.)
(Doesn't belong here, but sozlet made up a poem about your avatar -- "the cheshire cat/ with the santa hat/ went out to catch a little rat")
I'm glad you were taught to judge people and create nasty lables for those who live differnet lives and have different values from yourself.
and you stayed at the party for what reason, CL?
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