youngman wrote:
for goodfielder, tell me why calling someone an ahole on a web site is not ok? it is like i write in my diary, then instead of writing it on a paper, i used an online diary where anyone can read. i am entitled to my opinion if someone is an ahole or not, i just don't see why it is not ok to do so.
The difference between your diary and letting it loose for the whole world to see, is that many of your social circle will be able to read your views.
Yes, you have the right to freedom of speech, but with every right, there comes a counterbalancing responsibility.
For instance, you say that it is perfectly acceptable to claim that someone is an a*shole. That word implies a high degree of stupidity and casts doubt as to the character of the person to which you are aiming this insult.
Is there a boundary to what is acceptable and what is not?
Say your supposed a*shole cranks it up a notch, and enters a post onto THEIR website, a statement that you are a paedophile or a drug addict (after all, that may be his opinion).....how would YOU react?....knowing that all of your friends had full access to that information.
I don't know how the law works over in the USA, but over here in the UK, I would suspect that describing someone an a*shole in specific terms and in a public arena, could be bordering on defamation of character.
Better to recognize that you are very fortunate to have the priviledge of free speech, and to respect that priviledge, you also should pay heed to your responsibilities in this area, and act accordingly.
If you can prove beyond doubt that he is an a*shole, that is another matter.