Memory (RAM) is cheap, Frank, and easy to install - you oughtta be running at least twice what you've got, more if your machine will support it. Even if you tale your machine into a shop, an upgrade to 512MB of RAM shouldn't eat all of $C note.
Now ... you aren't gonna wanna read this, but your machine is seriously infested with yuckware, and I expect your poker playing has a lot to do with that. Some of the apps you've got running there, according to your list, willl bog down a late-model machine with tons of RAM - you've gotta get rid of that crap, and its gonna be a painstaking, tedious process. I suggest you have a look
HERE, set aside an evening, and get busy.
Just fyi:
Tbps
<----Yuckware
Pib
<----Yuckware
Aolservicehost
<---- OK
Aolservicehost (a second time)
<---- OK
Easyshare
<---- Not Yuckware, but doesn't need to start with Windows
Aolspscheduler
<---- OK
Aolhostmanager
<---- OK
Wbcl
<----Probably Yuckware
Soproc
<----Yuckware
Qttask
<---- Not Yuckware, but doesn't need to start with Windows
Kodakccs
<---- Not Yuckware, but doesn't need to start with Windows
Stimon
<---- OK
Systray
<---- OK
Rnaapp
<----Possibly Yuckware-related; unnescessary unless you are using dialup
Mwsoemon
<----Yuckware
Sboeaddr
<----Probably Yuckware