Re: Arguments for religion
Atom wrote:I just joined this forum and i am an atheist/agnostic. That is to say, i dont believe in god or any gods, or miracles or any other such fairytales. But whenever i say something like "religion is all bull**** and god doesnt exist", i feel a tiny bit guilty, so i think to myself, "how can you be a true atheist if you feel guilty when you badmouth god?", so i must have a bit of agnosticism in me.
Overall though, my attitude to religion is this...
Religion is just a fairytale, it is all stories and stuff. People turn to religion for false hope and a sense of security. Religion is all bull****. I hate it when people say "well the bible says..." who cares what the bible says?, it is just some lame book. Alot of the stuff in the bible is out of date, and people only used god as an impromptu answer to questions that they couldnt answer. In biblical times, people didnt know much and couldnt explain much, so they just said "god did it".
If god exists, then why do things like hurricane katrina happen? Religion states that god is all loving and all powerful, but this is wrong, even if he did exist, he cant be either of those things. Either he isnt all powerful, and hence, couldnt stop the event from taking place, or he isnt all loving, so he created it out of contempt-evil. Yes, religious people will now say, "evil and suffering is caused by the devil", but if the devil exists, then god cant be all powerful, otherwise, he would just destroy the devil.
There are many other things that constitute as evidence for god not existing, like the theory of evolution, which isnt really a theory anymore;it has been proved over and over and over again, but religious people always try and pick holes in it, because they are desperate; they dont like the idea that their whole life is a waste.
I also believe that it is very very wong to raise children christian, this is basically brain washing, children will believe what their parents tell them, so a child raised christian, will be a christian, without even ever having a say in the matter. This is wrong.
I see religion as a virus, spreading though humanity, and it needs to be stopped. Religious belief limits scientific advancement. I hate it when people try and spread religion. Some of the people in my family are jahovas witnesses, they are always trying to assimilate me into their cult, its so annoying.
If you are serious about finding peace generating tools you will find them everywhere irrespective of your believing or not believing in God / god or a Higher Power. Many of these gifts of peace are contained within the worlds religions. If you bother to read the rest of my post you will see how an atheist or agnostic cans still befit from the peace promoting tools these religions can offer you without you having to adopt the religion in toto.
Personally, I argue with no one. If I have the truth, I keep it and use it and share it. If you do not want it that is OK, I make no demands you adopt it. If I am wrong and you have the truth I adopt it readily and now I have the truth as well. Wherever the truth is - that is where I go. What is the truth? The truth is that which promotes peace within and with all. The truth is that which does not change. This is not so just because people have the cleverest argument to prove such things. The proof of the pudding is in the eating - arguing over the unanswerable is where many a Christian / Buddhist / Jew or Muslim loses their practice and their peace...they lose it in ego.
Thoreau once noted that people inviting him to a dinner would get their pride from how expensive and fancy a meal that could provide. He said on the other hand, he got his pride from how simple a meal he could make. We can get stuck and blinded with perfecting extreme views and this shows us where our pride is located. I see this a lot of spiritual practitioners that get stuck being perfectionists in the minutia while the rest of their life is out of balance. Where do I put my pride? I put it in being at peace.
If we desire enlightenment and peace ourselves we can ask the question of what is our guiding light - prejudice or truth? I was at a religious discussion one time where the group was composed of a wide spectrum of believers and non believers. One atheist said he ran his life by the golden rule. Another person piped up that the golden rule came from the bible, which made the atheist wince. The atheist seemed to take pride in his self sufficiency and did not like to run his life by anything that came out of the bible. Every religion was made by man and as such every religion is imperfect as it is run by man.
Despite these imperfections, each religion also has many "perfection's" within it as well. We can still be open to peace generating tools from any of the religions and spiritual traditions that are available to us if we are serious about being at peace. This requires us to run our life by truth and not by prejudice. In the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus said: "Therefore, whatever you want men to do to you, do also to them" (Matthew 7:12). Nowadays this verse is commonly referred to as "The Golden Rule," and is more commonly quoted as: "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you." Now, whether you believe in God or believe in Jesus or are an atheist or Buddhist does this wisdom not apply to you? In this case, you can adopt a peace generating tool from the Christians and apply it to your life irrespective of your religious beliefs or lack thereof. Wisdom for living a life at peace is all around us for the taking. But many of us get blinded with labels and personal prejudices. As such, I practice from many religious and spiritual traditions without problems or prejudices and readily look for such gifts irrespective of what label they come under - on the contrary I am most grateful wherever I find them.
The Muslims have a practice of praying five times a day to Allah. For those that do not know, Allah is the same God of the Jews and of the Old Testament that the Christians worship. The Muslims pray at sun up, when the sun is at its zenith at noon, when the sun is part way down in the afternoon, when the sun sets and when they go to bed. Even though I am a Christian and not a Muslim, I borrowed from the Muslim's prayer schedule to use as a reminder for my own prayers. If you are an Atheist you can borrow the Muslim's prayer schedule to be mindful of "gratitude" in your life - you can commune with the universe for all the good that that has been given to you at these same prayer times the Muslims use. If you do not want to develop a practice of gratitude, then what about using it as a reminder 5 times a day to relax your breath, practice mindfulness and bring your thoughts back to the present moment? When you have come to a point of gratitude for being able to open your eyes in the morning and being able to take a breath of air everything else is just gravy so to speak. Gratitude plays an important part with finding inner peace, just as being mindful of the present moment and being aware of anything that causes this mindfulness to wander.
A group of Catholic nuns has a motto of "Charity, Simplicity and Humility." Are these not all qualities we can benefit from whether Jew, Protestant or Atheists? If we think not, then what about developing peace from the opposite end of the spectrum by using Selfishness, Complex Living and Pride? Well, all these qualities whether they be the first group or the second are needed for a balanced life. The key here is that of balance and not to get too far in the extreme territory - for even though water and air are life sustaining necessities, too much of them will still kill us. The point I am trying to make is this; no need to discriminate or form prejudices against other religions - just take what you can apply from these spiritual traditions and use it in your own life to develop peace and contentment within yourself - all it takes is being honest, open and willing.
One time I asked an old Catholic priest if he ever studied about Buddhism when he was training in the seminary. He scowled at me like I was the devil shaking his head and quickly walking away from me. If he was a little more open minded to finding inner peace he might have been able to adopt a few peace generating tools from the Buddhists. Many monotheists believe that Buddhists worship the Buddha like he was a God / god. Well, some do, the misguided ones, but the Buddha was just a human, like the rest of us. Some misguided Christians worship the Pope or a favorite saint, so this worshiping of humans is not limited to the Buddhists. Before leaving his family and princely life for that of a renunciate, the Buddha was Prince Siddhartha of India. Some of Siddhartha's concepts were borrowed from the Hindu's. He added a few things and now other spiritual practitioners are borrowing them from him. Catholic priests are not exempt from being at peace either as the recent headlines shows. With just a little open mindedness, that old priest could have made use of many easily adopted peace generating tools from Buddhism. If you look into your own life, you will see anyone can make use of these 3 pillars of Buddhism that are common to all schools of Buddhist practice. Such tools are available to all irrespective of their religious beliefs or lack thereof. What is stopping you from your life of inner peace?
1- Practicing mindfulness and meditation to develop peace and self awareness of our own true nature.
2- Accepting the liberating wisdom of impermanence and practicing non-clinging and a lessening of craving and desires.
3- The development of compassion for others.
I practice for inner peace, but also it might be termed enlightenment. Buddhism provides this tool, which is just one out of the many tools I use for peace development. For once we have found a contentment within and with all and are at peace - we have found enlightenment. When you have come to a satisfactory junction in your life and desire no further progress and are content just to practice you are there. This requires no argumentation or debating. On the contrary, it is quite natural and peaceful. You can also tell when you have "arrived" by your practice telling you so. Does your practice revolve around actually practicing what you have learned to generate peace within or are you on a never ending journey of always looking and never finding?
Once I am at peace, I can share with others about finding peace for themselves, which is the secondary reason I practice. I have no interest in practicing Buddhism for extinguishing reincarnation. These "fear based" reasons for being a Buddhist are not authentic or natural - the persons actions are based on fear or negative consequences otherwise they would not do them. My actions are based on inner peace and if I stray - there goes my peace - it is my choice. I enjoy life and realize that due to natural law, suffering comes about as part of the process and I accept it as a fair trade off for the privilege of living, so I would enjoy any reincarnation if given the privilege. Buddhism helps makes this trade off of life and pain more in my favor by lending me support to live a life at peace. I do not practice Buddhism to earn merit for the next life - I practice Buddhism for my own peace generation in THIS LIFE.
The Gnostic gospel of Thomas was not included in the New Testament due to prejudice. Gnosticism was persecuted at that time and the bishop in charge of what went into the bible only wanted 4 gospels in the new testament. The reason the bishop liked the idea of 4 gospels stemmed from his predisposition with the number 4. There were 4 seasons, 4 directions , (north, south, east and west), the human body had 4 limbs and so on. Jesus' quote in Thomas's gospel sums up man's quest for enlightenment very succinctly in an almost eastern like fashion.
"The disciples asked Jesus, when will the kingdom come? Jesus replied, 'The kingdom will not come by watching for it. It will not be said - look here or look there. Rather, the kingdom of heaven is spread out upon the earth and men do not see it."
The seeds of enlightenment are all around us - we only have to seek the truth and come to peace within to realize this. In the 12 step programs they have a saying. "attraction rather than promotion" this implies that persons seek out 12 step recovery from a desire to have what other successful 12 step practitioners have. It works the same with religion. No need to argue and try and beat people over the head with dogma. When we spend our time trying to change others it is a signpost of our own disease. Attraction rather than promotion is the way of peace.
Good Luck,