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Should I move abroad to Japan/Korea right after college in the US?

 
 
Reply Tue 24 Feb, 2026 03:33 pm
I’m currently 21(F) and plan to graduate college in the US with a production degree and English minor next year. My situation at home is really unstable and I know we wont be able to keep the house long-term so the idea of moving back home after school doesn’t sit well with me.

I’ve done my best to save as much as I can, especially at college, but I by no means have a lot of money. I’ve always dreamed of living abroad as growing up in the US in a small town has always felt so confining.

Almost no one in my immediate family graduated college or have moved out of our hometown, so it’s hard to get advice from them and I really don’t want to follow their footsteps and end up stuck in this place too.

I’ve been looking at options in Asia since I’ve always loved the culture and ability to live without a car in Japanese or Korean cities. I’ve visited Japan previously, and yes I know visiting is nothing like actually living somewhere, but I truly did love it. My father took me because he wanted me to see more of the world and reach for bigger places, but he’s also always encouraged practicality as well.

I’d love to live in Japan or South Korea, even if it’s just for a few years to experience the culture and save up some money if possible, as well as gaining work experience.

I haven’t had many opportunities to work outside of at my college and getting an internship has been difficult since I don’t have a car currently.

The easiest way to move is definitely teaching English but I know the working conditions and salary can be brutal. The other option I’ve found would be to find an employer and obtain a work visa, but it would likely be very difficult to find jobs offering foreigners work in my field of study, especially in Japan and with limited experience.

There’s also the issue of not knowing the language. I taught myself some very basic Japanese for my trip there previously and learning Korean is something I’ve been interested in for a few years now. I’d be completely willing to dedicate myself to learning either language though if I had the opportunity to go there.

I just want to know if something like this would be a huge mistake and if I would be better off trying to move to a US city and find a media job. Although, I don’t know if I’d be able to afford an apartment in a US city since I would also need a car right away.

I’m just scared if I don’t move abroad, I’ll always be wondering what my life could have been like if I did. I’m already regretting not doing a study abroad while in college because I now would most likely have to delay my graduation by a lot if I wanted to do one. I’ve just always felt like I took the easy path in things and if I keep doing that, I won’t be happy.

Sorry this post was so long.

I’d appreciate any advice on this, even if it’s harsh.
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Reply Tue 24 Feb, 2026 07:15 pm
@Storm2234,
There are US cities where the public transportation is good enough that you do not need a car. The following come to mind:

* Boston
* New York
* Philadelphia (possibly also Pittsburgh, but it's been years since I was there, so I'm not sure)
* DC (possibly also Baltimore, as it's part of the same transit system)
* Chicago
* San Francisco (probably also Oakland, which is nearby IIRC)
* Portland, OR
* Seattle
* Miami
* Providence, RI
* Minneapolis/St. Paul
* maybe Madison, WI

Some of these are rather expensive places to live, but some aren't. As for a media job, I imagine you'd do best being on either of the coasts or maybe Chicago, unless you're looking into radio or something like that.

Providence, RI could be an excellent choice for you. You can get a train or a plane to New York or any other major city, in a walkable city that's got a lot of charm (I've lived in Providence, and it's lovely and funky). More importantly, it's affordable, particularly in comparison to NYC or the like.

Living in Asia may sound like fun, but if you don't already know the language, you will be stuck a lot of the time, trying to communicate. It's also on the other side of the world where it sounds to me as if you have no network and no support system. You have no job lined up. How are you going to handle unemployment there if you can't find work immediately?

Plus, let's be practical about this. Do you really want to be trying to explain allergies or an injury with hand gestures and a translation app if you end up in the Emergency Room?

It's also far. There's no getting around it. Even from the West Coast, a flight to Tokyo is over 11 hours.

What if there was an emergency at home?

Flying back is also expensive and you'll have massive jetlag no matter what you do.

If you want to live outside the US, there are other places that are fascinating but closer. Say, Canada, where you would know the language (unless you moved to Quebec, if you don't know French already), the distance isn't too bad, and you've got a fighting chance of actually being in the same time zone as family.

Or if you want a rather different culture, there are places like Mexico, Brazil, and Morocco, that are all closer.

Going to some place exotic can be fun and exciting. But if you're broke, you don't know the language, and you have no support system there, you're setting yourself up for heartache.

But here's an idea.

Why not step straight into a job that will look pretty incredible on your resume but still satisfy your itch to travel?

I'm talking about the Peace Corps.

Look for an opportunity here: https://www.peacecorps.gov/ways-to-serve/service-assignments/browse-opportunities/peace-corps-volunteer/
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