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Bernie's OK so don't worry, but.......

 
 
BumbleBeeBoogie
 
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Reply Sun 14 Aug, 2005 09:23 am
Lola
sozobe wrote:
Lola, can't you guys drag a justice of the peace in there or something so you have a little more access to Bernie? That sucks that visiting hours are so limited.

Broken ribs, yoiks. Brings back how serious this all is. If he comes out of this with just broken ribs and otherwise hale and hearty, fantastic, but I know that broken ribs are themselves quite a trial.

Hugs to both of you.


Sozobe's suggestion about getting hitched is not a bad idea---especially before any surgery takes place. Medical Insurance issues, etc.

BBB
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Ethel2
 
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Reply Sun 14 Aug, 2005 09:28 am
Re: Lola
BumbleBeeBoogie wrote:
Lola, your's is one of at least seven instances among my friends where the difference between surviving or dying depended on a loved-one being near who thought rationally and quickly, doing all the right things. It's almost as if your flight home from Texas was a life-saving flight. Congratulations on handling a dangerous situation so well. You most certainly saved Blatham's life. Now he owes you big time!

I hope our post printouts are a comfort to Blatham because the ICU can be a dreadfully cold life-saving mechanical place to be. Extra love and human contact with the patient really helps to keep up their spirits.

Hugs to both of you between tears of joy that he's getting better.

BBB


It's true BBB, I feel blessed by the Universe to have been here when he needed me. I can hardly stand to think about what it would have been like otherwise. Of course, it could be said that my arrival precipitated the attack.......but at least it happened while I was here because it was going to come soon enough anyway. Actually we're lucky to find that he had the other colesterol blockages before they cut off the blood supply.

Bad boy bernie for smoking all these years! Oops, that just slipped out.

As far as the atmosphere in the ICU is concerned. I've been very favorably impressed with the lovely bedside manner and excellent training that has made the staff there so helpful and caring. He's in Cornell University Medical Center and it is apparently a very good hospital. The para-medics made an excellent decision when they took us there. It's only 10 blocks away from my apartment. I still don't believe in God, but lady luck was smiling on us yesterday, that's for sure. When I finally was able to call his brothers and their wives yesterday, I had to ask which hospital it was. Funny........I was focused on only one thing and that was to get him to the ER somewhere as fast as possible.

Again, thanks for your responses. I'm sure Bernie will enjoy them when I get them to him later this morning.
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Ethel2
 
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Reply Sun 14 Aug, 2005 09:30 am
blueveinedthrobber wrote:
Can he receive phone calls yet?


No phone calls yet. But someone call me on my cell and you can talk to me. You're a sweetie, Bear.
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dlowan
 
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Reply Sun 14 Aug, 2005 10:31 am
ow - no zappers in the ER?
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realjohnboy
 
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Reply Sun 14 Aug, 2005 10:39 am
Best wishes, Lola and Blatham, for his quick and total recovery. I don't interact with yall very often on A2K. But I have read many posts from each of you and admire the wit, wisdom and genteelness each of you brings here. rjb-from Virginia
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mac11
 
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Reply Sun 14 Aug, 2005 10:58 am
Shocked A few broken ribs? Shocked Wow. That would hurt like hell even if nothing else was wrong. It's hard to heal when it hurts to even breathe.

I'm with you in spirit, Lola, as I'm sure we all are. I know you're there right now and we're there with you.

Bernie, I'm having trouble putting into words how much you mean to me. Please behave yourself and listen to all the good advice you're getting!
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Noddy24
 
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Reply Sun 14 Aug, 2005 01:21 pm
Official Visiting hours are posted in the ICU, but I've found that if a visitor's presence calms a patient, the nursing staff ignores the rules.

On the other hand, if a visitor sets off the monitors at the nursing station, that visitor is discouraged from even three minute drop-ins.

Broken bones heal faster in non smokers.
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JPB
 
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Reply Sun 14 Aug, 2005 01:24 pm
Lola wrote:


You guys hold forth with whatever it is you do to beg mercy from the Universe and I'll do everything I can to help the medical staff.


Done.

Best wishes to you both. It's not an easy road for either of you.
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Bi-Polar Bear
 
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Reply Sun 14 Aug, 2005 01:55 pm
I just hung up with Lola. I guess last night Blatham had some sort of small incident, they're not calling it a heart attack though is my understanding. Our connection was not superb. I guess 24 hours no cigarette is probably not so great for the disposition either. Bright side, by the time he gets home the physical addiction part will be over.

Wish I could get squinney to quit.

Anyway, their watching him closely and under the circumstances all is well, apparently.
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ossobuco
 
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Reply Sun 14 Aug, 2005 02:21 pm
Thanks, Bear..
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georgeob1
 
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Reply Sun 14 Aug, 2005 04:12 pm
Didn't know 'till now that 'bluevein...." was bear. Should'a guessed. Glad to see you here.


If Bernie gets through this OK, I'll reag Hofstader's damn book !!
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Frank Apisa
 
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Reply Sun 14 Aug, 2005 04:14 pm
georgeob1 wrote:
Didn't know 'till now that 'bluevein...." was bear. Should'a guessed. Glad to see you here.


If Bernie gets through this OK, I'll reag Hofstader's damn book !!


Bear...ain't the bear anymore?????

What happened?
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Acquiunk
 
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Reply Sun 14 Aug, 2005 05:25 pm
I just found this thread and glad it is a support and sympathy thread and not a wake. Glad to know that Bernie is over the worst and on track for a speedy recovery.
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kickycan
 
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Reply Sun 14 Aug, 2005 06:01 pm
Okay, Bernie, stop with the heart attack stuff! You win! You can kiss me again!

But not on the lips.
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dlowan
 
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Reply Sun 14 Aug, 2005 06:15 pm
blueveinedthrobber wrote:
I just hung up with Lola. I guess last night Blatham had some sort of small incident, they're not calling it a heart attack though is my understanding. Our connection was not superb. I guess 24 hours no cigarette is probably not so great for the disposition either. Bright side, by the time he gets home the physical addiction part will be over.

Wish I could get squinney to quit.

Anyway, their watching him closely and under the circumstances all is well, apparently.


So - you be saying 'twas angina? No heart muscle damage?

Oh - I do hope so!
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Bi-Polar Bear
 
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Reply Sun 14 Aug, 2005 06:18 pm
dlowan wrote:
blueveinedthrobber wrote:
I just hung up with Lola. I guess last night Blatham had some sort of small incident, they're not calling it a heart attack though is my understanding. Our connection was not superb. I guess 24 hours no cigarette is probably not so great for the disposition either. Bright side, by the time he gets home the physical addiction part will be over.

Wish I could get squinney to quit.

Anyway, their watching him closely and under the circumstances all is well, apparently.


So - you be saying 'twas angina? No heart muscle damage?

Oh - I do hope so!


No I'm not saying that at all. He had some sort of small incident last night in addition the the hear attack he was admitted for according to Lola. I don't want to talk out of school.
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dlowan
 
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Reply Sun 14 Aug, 2005 06:23 pm
Oh - dammit.
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fishin
 
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Reply Sun 14 Aug, 2005 06:34 pm
Just found this thread after a weekend of being out running around.

Lola, you tell that old coot that I still have a few bones to pick with him so he had best get his rump back on A2K in full fighting form pronto! Wink

My best to the both of you... (and ummm.. tell him to make note of which drugs are good and which ones aren't. Just in case I decide I wanna be one of the cool guys and have a heart attack of my own some day!)
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timberlandko
 
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Reply Sun 14 Aug, 2005 07:37 pm
I'm late to the party as usual Embarrassed Rolling Eyes Damn! That's as serious as a heart attack. Sure glad to hear Bernie's getting on well. And you, Glamor Gams - find a way to take it a little easy and get yourself some rest - you're sure as hell gonna need all your resources and vigor when the hospital tires of his shennanigans and boots him into your care.


Oh, and extend my sympathies to the nursing staff - this must be hell for them, too.
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farmerman
 
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Reply Sun 14 Aug, 2005 07:41 pm
Holy shitd, I just heard and , all I can do is pile on my concerns with all the others. (Didnt even know he had a first name of Bernie, now I dont feel so bad with my Dracula fambly name)

Did B. (I cant say Bernie,) have any dental work prior to his attack? Im seeing a curious thing in some friends who had "first" heart attacks shortly after events like teeth cleaning or root canals.

Hes gonna be fine, My mojo is 100% accurate to date .
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