I started compromising with my feelings and respect other feelings, caring for them. Then people started loving me more and now i am happy too.
BTW, the same goes for you.
Are you happy, or are you just telling yourself you are because you're now playing the game?
It's fine to respect others feelings, but not always the best course of action. Especially when it comes at the price of your own feelings being compromised and made less important.
Besides, why should one person be willing to compromise their feelings, but not the others?