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Mon 4 Feb, 2019 12:33 am
My wife and I have been very happily married and sexually active for almost 20 years. We are great communicators and are very much in touch with our emotions. We have just had a fun discussion about my wife's bi-curiosity - which is not news to either of us - and we have just tentatively agreed to act on it in the next 10 days (Valentine's day is also our anniversary).
My wife is apprehensive about a full on 3some with me fully involved, but would very much like us to meet someone and have a passionate make-out - both of us. I immediately agreed!
The problem is we have no idea how to go about finding someone for this activity! My wife mentioned a lap dance club - but I'm not sure this is a place where such a scenario would transpire. I know of an LGBTQ nightclub in our city - but truthfully we are totally unsure of where to start this adventure. We have picked a day and have decided to stay at a hotel in the city on a Saturday night. She has even decided what outfit to wear and wants to wear.
Suggestions of where to start please folks? Many thanks in advance.
Try a swingers club or dating site.
@Sarlav,
Threesomes are more difficult than couples from my experience. Logistically they do not work out as well and couples are much easier to find and trust. I do recommend you take your time to truly get to know them both. There are some decent high end dating sites with specific dating preferences and searches. We've used one a few times and found several amazing couples.