Mon 4 Feb, 2019 12:33 am
My wife and I have been very happily married and sexually active for almost 20 years. We are great communicators and are very much in touch with our emotions. We have just had a fun discussion about my wife's bi-curiosity - which is not news to either of us - and we have just tentatively agreed to act on it in the next 10 days (Valentine's day is also our anniversary).
My wife is apprehensive about a full on 3some with me fully involved, but would very much like us to meet someone and have a passionate make-out - both of us. I immediately agreed!
The problem is we have no idea how to go about finding someone for this activity! My wife mentioned a lap dance club - but I'm not sure this is a place where such a scenario would transpire. I know of an LGBTQ nightclub in our city - but truthfully we are totally unsure of where to start this adventure. We have picked a day and have decided to stay at a hotel in the city on a Saturday night. She has even decided what outfit to wear and wants to wear.
Suggestions of where to start please folks? Many thanks in advance.
Try a swingers club or dating site.
Threesomes are more difficult than couples from my experience. Logistically they do not work out as well and couples are much easier to find and trust. I do recommend you take your time to truly get to know them both. There are some decent high end dating sites with specific dating preferences and searches. We've used one a few times and found several amazing couples.