Phoenix writes
Quote:Foxfyre- Of course parents always love their child, and want the best for the. Try, for one moment to attempt to be objective about this. Fifteen years, no functioning cerebral cortex. There is a time when loved ones need to look realistically at a situation, and know when it is time to let go. The time, IMO, had long passed. The Schindlers refused to deal with reality, and groups with their own agenda latched on to them, for their own gain.
I question as to whether Terri was "being done a huge injustice".
If I was unconvinced my daughter wanted to die as the Schindlers were unconvinced--we cannot say they lied about that. . . .
If I was unconvinced my daughter was already 'dead' as the Schindlers were unconvinced--we cannot say they lied about that. . . .
If I was convinced that my daughter would suffer for weeks being dehydrated to death as the Schindlers were convinced that Terri would--we cannot say they lied about that. . . .
If I was convinced that my son-in-law was intentionally ordering my daughter's death for his own motives totally unrelated to any concern for her as the Schindlers were convinced that Michael Schiavo was doing. . . .
I would do exactly what the Schindlers have done and perhaps even more.
That the organizations that have helped the Schindlers are all 'right to life' organizations, what is wrong with that? They are doing what they do and what they believe in. Why are the Schindlers so terrible for accepting their help? What is so sinister about them offering it?
Is it equally wrong that the ACLU and other organizations have supported Michael Schiavo as well? Should he have sent the ACLU packing? What's the difference?
But then I am squarely in the right to life camp and think in all cases, life is to be considered an inalienable right, sacred, and never to be discarded casually or for personal gain. And if error is to be made, it should be made on the side of life every single time. So I don't see organizations that support my beliefs as being so sinister. And I think it wrong and unconscionable and visciously cruel to dehydrate any living creature, much less a defenseless human being, to death and cannot fault organizations who take that same view.
It doesn't matter whether you would act as they did. I think it is wrong to criticize grieving, frantic parents who use whatever means are at their disposal to stop what they considered a cruel and grave injustice done to their daughter. I can't imagine any parent passively allowing that to be done.
I am not one who believes courts, staffed by human beings, are infallible. And yes, I am dismayed at those who think dehydrating a person to death is okay because a judge said it could be done. And I am frightened at the precedent that has been set.
But I think I have said what I think on this thread. And will likely withdraw for now. I believe I am on the right side of the issue and I think I share a majority view once people have a chance to really think about it.