Fri 26 Jan, 2018 03:58 pm
I have struggled for the last 4 years with a narcissistic sociopath that dates my partners best friend. It’s like everything I do, she does and even though I don’t often see her, I’ve been ruminating constantly over everything. She’s turned most people I know against me and always plays the victim which has caused issues between my partner and I and his friend. I found strength in it all last year but after she wiggled her way into another area of my life recently it’s all come back. A friend referred to our situation as emotional abuse and I’m exhausted. How can I get her out of my head once and for all and not have her affect me the way she does? I’m notmally a very confident person who doesn’t let anyone get to me, except for her.
There is a ton of videos available that show how to deal with narcissists. Just google"female narcissist."
The thing they hate the most is a happy person who seems satisfied with their life. . They zoom in on lonely, approval seeking, kind people as their victim. They get off on one upmanship . Watch your BF ,too. Wrapping him around her finger and turning him against you gives her smug satisfaction.