@dlowan,
Quote:So...the split works for you?
Sigh.
How'd you do it, if you don't object to saying?
I'd love to go .8, but the mortgage calls
Well, Deb, I figured I just couldn't keep doing what I'd been doing for years or something was gonna give.... & other (personal) factors (some beyond my control) meant that I
had to change how I lived. After that, it was mainly adjusting, adjusting, adjusting .... (& no longer having a mortgage certainly helps!)
Thing is, I'm considerably less wealthy (ha!) but I have a lot more time for essential things like shopping, keeping myself fed, etc I'm a lot less frazzled, too. .... I found, too, the less time I worked, the less $$$$ I spent, or
needed to spend! It's by no means a perfect situation, but it's as good as I can get it.