I understand what your saying...I'm finding hard to express myself, but I don't want her to think that because I say 'Religious Custom' it's alright, and by just saying that, it makes women with 'blacked out' faces acceptable...because to me it simply isn't acceptable.
Perhaps I should not come on threads like this. I usually avoid 'God threads) because I find I get emotional...and yes I see religion as ignorance, pure and simple. I abhor the damage, barbarity and abuse that is carried out in the name of religion. I particularly hate circumcision, consider it child abuse and the state a collusive abuser, I actively campaign against it.
I have lived as a moslem woman - let me tell you my life was a living hell, as it was for all my female friends. When I was pregnant, I prayed all the way through my pregnancy for a girl. If I had had a boy...I knew I would leave, rather than mutilate (what other word would anyone like to substetute to make them feel bettter) or inflict pain and discomfort on my baby soon after birth. I had a girl and left anyway.
Now I have a granddaughter, I want to tell her the truth...don't be afaraid of the bogeyman...unless he wears religious robes.