You are basically saying "My beliefs are right, and other cultural beliefs are wrong".
No, my standards are based on what I call common sense. It makes no sense to physically mutilate females. My cultural indoctrination had nothing to do with my assessment of that cultural practice.
There are many cultures that practice arranged marriages, and many people in these cultures that have had happy, productive lives with arranged marriages.
I have no idea how you came to this conclusion. Generally, people born into a culture where arranged marriages are the norm have no reference from which to compare their life. In simple terms, you're saying that marrying someone whom you did not choose makes more sense than marrying someone of your own choosing. That makes no sense.
But you give no "experiment" that we can do to say that you are right
You should poll young people, asking them if they would prefer to marry someone of their own choosing, or someone of another's choosing. I promise you that it will be a slam dunk in favor of marrying someone of their own choosing. But you already knew that . . .
And of course, this doesn't touch on the issue of young girls being placed in the beds of adult males. What would a man want with an emotionally and intellectually immature mate? This is a no-brainer. I shouldn't even have to ask.